Why do women complain about not being allowed to express their sexual desires?

Question

considering that they HATE it when men express theirs? unless it is a man the woman happens to be attracted to, most women find sexual attention annoying and disrespecful. so then why do women feel like it should be ok for them to express their sexual desires? if they find something low and classless when men do it, why should it be ok when they do it?

Answer 1

Simple. Because society has a vicious double standard.  Women are suppose to be a certain way and conform.  Of course, this is a medieval outlook but one that exists.

Also, many men are threatened by a strong women.  s*x hits at our core so it is closely tied to a man's esteem.

Answer 2

Point well taken. I understand what you are saying. I can only assume that what women find offensive, men find natural.  

Answer 3

What are you talking about?  It's a bit annoying that just because you hear some women do a certain thing, you ask the entire gender why all of them do this specific thing.  Grow a brain.

Answer 4

would you want some nasty ugly hideous woman making sexual advances at you? Or would that be offensive?

That's why i don't like sexual attention because most of the men who do it are nasty men who i would never give the time of day too now if it's  a handsome intelligent man such as my fiance I like the attention.

I'm sorry but coming up to me and saying you can clear a place for me to sit and wiping your mouth disgusts me and makes the man ugly. I think it's nasty when women do it too whatever happened to good pick up lines ones with respect.

umm Nunya there are variations in the female genitals lol some are naturally longer, wider, shorter, narrower etc. Please do research before you say that c**p.

Answer 5

I know a lady here who liked me but John said stay away from each other.  She expressed it to me. I liked her, she is so pretty.

I smile to her when John is busy.

Answer 6

Perhaps it the methods men use to attract women that seem crude or unattractive.

Women do not express their sexual desires because men then write songs about them calling them who##s or sl@ts.

Answer 7

women dont have a sick mind like you

Answer 8

Once again, your 20-year old brain is engaging in faulty reasoning.  I have never suppressed expressing my sexual desires, and have never hated it when a man I was attracted to expressed his.  It only becomes unwelcome when I am not interested in him, just as it would be unwelcome to a man if he was not attracted to the woman making the advances.  You have to use some common sense, you (male OR female) don't go up to someone you've never seen before and proposition them.  You "feel them out" first to see if there might be mutual interest.  Anything else would be inviting rejection.  Maybe that's your problem.  You're going up to women and just propositioning them without finding out if they might possibly be interested.  If you're encountering constant rejection, look at the common denominator... you.  Change your approach.  And it's not all about looks.  A man I worked with who was not particularly attractive pursued me.  He did it in a respectful manner, and eventually he convinced me that he would be fun to be with.  And he was.  The only reason it took a while was the fact that we were coworkers, and I wanted to make sure he wouldn't be one who would talk "outside of school."

Answer 9

I'm the type of person who hangs out with guys mostly. I hear them talk about basically everything. But I shrug it off and laugh. The only thing that passes through my mind is "men". Its normal for guys to express themselves i actually find it disrespectful when a woman does it. If she does it in the same matter as a guy all i could think about is this woman is a s**t. When a guy hits on me i think they're lying. so i don't find it offensive i just don't by it. But the woman should be the one with the class and respect because can you imagine if the woman behaved the same way a guy did? I mean there would be more g*y and lesbians out there because you'll be attracted to the same behavior. I'm going to stop now i don't think i'm making sense lol. Majority of the woman don't get offended if they do its usually they don't find you attractive or they have someone way better looking than you.  

Answer 10

because women want special rights. its their nature

Answer 11

I prefer not to know the sexual desires of either men or women, unless I ask for the information. No complaints here hon.  

Answer 12

i cant say i have been bothered by a guy or girl expressing themselves sexually. its normal and is commonplace were i am.

i do however get offended by te types of guys that insist on grabbing you or touching you in a club when you havent even spoke to them. many guys do this when drinking and it is offensive as i am a married woman and dont particularly wanted to be grabbed at whoever the guy sis.

other than that anyone of either s*x can admire all they like or approach each other in a none sleazy way