Why do women get so mad at guys looking at nude pics or p**n when women are the ones putting it out there?

Question

From what I see if a woman looks good she will be likely to expose herself & show off what she has. Look at how many "Girls Gone Wild" videos are out there. It's going to take more than a free tee shirt for me to pose nude. Hey I really just want to understand why women expose themslves & then get mad when guys look. Example: I'm going to put on a really short skirt & no panties, but please don't look. If a guy did that women would be looking too. After all why is it that more women watched the movie "300" than men & bought it later. Look at what women wear to the beach vs men. I'm just saying nude women are all over the internet, why? If it wasn't so readly available maybe men wouldn't be looking.

Answer 1

I have yet to understand it myself.  I think it is insecurities or jealousy.

Answer 2

that is a really really good point. i guess some women just dont "expose themselves" like you say, and so get really quite annoyed when men look at women who actually would. i have 15 year old mates, im 15 as well btw, who bring their Zoo mags into school and sit there flicking through the pages while they wait for their buses. i often wait with them and just sorta "tune out" when they talk about all sorts of guy things to do with the mags. then one of them apologises and says "it's coz i'm 15, and this is what 15 year old guys do." im still contemplating as to why he says that.....but oh well. XD

Answer 3

They only get upset when you're paying more attention of another woman than them. Ofcourse they won't lose weight are attempt to make themselves look attractive but they expect you to be miserable like they are.

Answer 4

I'm not sure if I fully understand what you are asking, are you saying that women expose them self and then get mad when guys look? If that is the case they obviously have issues and you need to hang out with a better class of women.

If you are saying  women expose them self and other women get mad when their men look, well then DUH!! No woman wants her man looking at another woman.

Answer 5

lol

Answer 6

Girls Gone Wild is nothing but a showcase of drunk chicks doing something incredibly stupid....and there have been quite a few lawsuits filed regarding them, ie the women (I use that term very loosely since in reality they are still just girls) coming to their senses and realizing what has happened. It is interesting how you choose to turn the tables and blame women for the surge in pornography....and in fact for your desire to look. Fact is, if there wasn't a market for such c**p, there wouldn't be such a huge amount of people involved in it. Men set up the market...men perpetuate the market (by and large). Women, mostly abused and/or addicted, see easy money, and fill a so-called need or gap. The reality is, as a human being, I have the ability to dress as I so choose. Regardless of what I wear (or don't wear) it does not give you the right to look or leer, it's not like dress code designates a free for all. Fact is, if men didn't desire it to be so readily available, it would not be. If p**n didn't make $ for the producers, if men didn't keep the market hopping, it would die down. Same goes for hooking. That's like blaming hookers for men using them. When in reality, if there was not a demand for hookers (if it wasn't a lucrative and viable option again for mostly abused and addicted women) placed there by men, there would be far fewer hookers. Look up consumerism. Educate yourself beyond the small view point you've shared and then you'll maybe understand.  

Answer 7

The women who put it out there are not the same ones that's against it. That's like saying why is drugs illegal but yet they keep selling it. These are two different class of people. being born the same s*x doesn't mean you are necessarily in the same class.

Answer 8

You know darned well that all women can't answer for all women.  The women that are exposing themselves are obviously not the ones upset about it.  What a ridiculous question.

This sort of behavior is probably what turns a perfectly otherwise normal guy into a pervert who may not be able to control himself.  Someone who may eventually assault a child.  

It is not just the looking that women are concerned about, it's all the behaviors that are attached to the filth that enters the mind of their man.

Answer 9

Good one!  I am in whole agreement with Beastsee...from a woman's view,  the reason we get upset is due to a jealous reaction of  thinking "I should be enough to please my man, so he sould never even think of looking at another."   (we tend to take it personnal)

Most women don't realize it is beyond a male's ability to refrain from looking, so don't even try to figure this one out...   accept it and try to keep it to yourself.    Just don't touch!!

Answer 10

It's not our fault other women have so self-esteem and will sell their bodies for the glory and amusement of men like cattle. Frankly, if a woman wants to degrade herself, it's her own personal choice, and if my guy wants to look at less than reputable women, I don't care it's his choice just as long as looking is all he's doing, it's just the internet or tv, it's not real life, everyone has fantasies and I've come to realize even if I'd prefer he didn't or no matter how piggish it is, it's a guy thing and I probably shouldn't take it too personal.

Jenxx

Answer 11

WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE DRESSING LIKE THAT AND NOT ALL OF US DO THANK YOU VERY MUCH! JUST BECAUSE SOMETHING IS PUT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE DOESN'T GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO LOOK AT IT. YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO KNOW THAT IT'S TRASH AND YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER AND HAVE ENOUGH RESPECT FOR OTHER WOMEN TO NOT BE A PART OF IT.YOU KNOW WHAT IS REALLY RIGHT AND NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO LOOK. YOU CAN ALWAYS BE A TRUE GENTLEMEN AND LOOK AWAY.YES WOMEN LOOK TOO WE ARE HUMAN JUST LIKE MEN. BUT p**n SHOULDN'T BE OUT THERE AT ALL AND IT'S NOT JUST WOMEN DOING IT. THE FACT IS YOU KNOW WHAT IS REALLY RIGHT TO NOT TAKE ANY PART OF IT. BE A MAN AND DO THE RIGHT THING. MAYBE IF MORE MEN STOOD UP AND SAID THAT'S TRASH OTHER WOMEN WHO HALF SELF ESTEEM ISSUES WOULDN'T DRESS LIKE THAT OR TAKE TRASHY PHOTOS. UNFORTUNATELY I THINK A LOT OF WOMEN DO IT FOR THE MONEY AND FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE NO WHERE ELSE TO TURN.  I FEEL SAD FOR THEM BUT IT IS TOTALLY WRONG!

Answer 12

because women are sluty slags

Answer 13

Because women expect men to have high standards and when they are exposed as being human, they are disappointed.

Answer 14

I am sure that your girlfriend isn't a p**n star. I am not either so it is not all women putting i tout there.

Answer 15

Their photo's... who cares if he looks at them. I have a problem when it comes down to the real thing.

Answer 16

Women aren't the ones putting it out there.  It's guys, paying women and guys putting it out there for other guys to pay for it.  It's all about trading skin or s*x for money.  

Answer 17

The small percentage of women that pose for nude magazines or do nude films is very small compared to those who have never done either of those. The majority of people find it distasteful to watch,purchase literature, or see nudity anywhere,including television,because of what they believe and what they don't want there children to see or be exposed to,myself included.

Answer 18

This is one of their special traits.

Answer 19

well I don't get mad at my man for looking at nude pics.....he has tons of half naked playmates hanging down in the basement as a matter of fact.. But I still know that his favorite nudes to look at are me....I catch him looking at them at least once a day =)