Why do women get w/dead beat dads.....?

Question

then blame the exes for their financial troubles because the guy is expected to pay child support? Honestly, why would they want to get w/a person who doesn't want to care for the children he has already help create, doesn't that say something about what type of father they will be to any future children?

*For men substitute words like men for women, dead beat mom w/dad, etc. Men are just as foolish to get w/dead beat moms just as women are just as likely to be dead beat moms.

Answer 1

Because they lie, they make up stories and lead us to believe that the mother of the other child(ren) are to blame.  In my case i knew my exhusband for many years but we didn't talk for awhile and he got with a girl i hated.  They had two kids and when they split up he said she wouldn't allow him to take care of the kids and that she was causing problems.  I already hated her so i believed him and didn't listen when people were trying to tell me the truth.  He also lied and said he was keeping up with his support.  I found out the truth about everything after i got pregnant with our second son.

Answer 2

the woman i know who got with a dead beat dad is not a smart woman.  Woman like her just like BEING PURSUED no matter who the loser is.  She probably thought the guy would change for her but sooner rather than later she finds out that she couldn't.  These type of woman do not learn from others' mistakes, never.  

This woman i know has two children, each child from a different father.  She still enjoys flirting and being pursued.  And she's left to fend for the children by herself.

Answer 3

I guess it's because they are lied to. My mother didn't know my little brother was the 17th of his fathers children (I'm serious) and he wasn't the last. Thank god he isn't my father and that they were over before my brother took his first breath.

Answer 4

Because the second woman has as little moral or even worst moral than the deadbeat dad.  

She's in there just for the money or companionship.

Or just because she wants a child so much, not caring whether there's enough resources to bring the child up.  She just have her biological clock yelling at her saying she wants a child now, any child.  

That really says something about the second woman.  The deadbeat dad never respect the second woman.  I have heard that some even go on saying that they actually respect and love the first woman more.  Making fun of the second woman.

Answer 5

people change.

Answer 6

It is commonly one of two things.

Men lie and lead women to believe that the first women and the children are some how to blame for their relationships problems. Men make the first woman out to be evil. Also, they lie about being up to date with child support. Men say they have changed... Men lie.

Or.

A dumb women. A women who doesn't have the sense to not be the other women. The ignorant, trailer trash, no value women.

Rarley do people ever change.

Answer 7

Because there are so many of them these days. men don't take care of their children like they used to.

Answer 8

Most likely a very low self-esteem. And the desire to be loved by anybody.And the most common reason, thinking they will change a person into someone they want them to be and not seeing the reality of who they are.Too many movies with happy endings.