Why do women like jerks?

Question

I'm a nice guy, good looking in shape but I am always second in line and when the girls realize it, it is to late and I have a hard time being second best! I move on!

Answer 1

You should say "Why do SOME women like jerks", cause I know a h**l of a lot of women that would not like to be with a jerk.

Maybe the women you are interested in are jerks themselves.

Well my motto is to treat every woman like you'd like your mother/sister/daughter to be treated and it never failed me. I've always had good relationships with nice women and now Im happily married to a great woman and Im not a jerk.

You're interested in the wrong people I think.

Answer 2

Don't worry, most girls out grow that. The older they get the more they look for a nice guy. so date older women or just wait it out.

Answer 3

first of all not all women like jerks just the brainless ones so dont generalize :P

Answer 4

thats because yo hang out with the wrong type fo girls. dont blame them just because they dont get it. go find girls that appreciate a nice guy

Answer 5

women don't like jerks. it's only the airhead type of girls who do.

Answer 6

i'm sure i speak for a lot of women when i say, we don't like jerks.

Answer 7

I hate em!!!!!!!!!!

Your looking at the wrong girls, jerks are fun to be mean to that is about it.

Answer 8

some women might have had a dad or family member who is somewhat jerk-ish and they might have gotten used to it, so they like jerks

and sometimes theres something about jerks that woman find attractive. dont be too much of a nice guy because they want a man with at least SOME backbone. but eventually some women grow out of liking bad boys

Answer 9

I'm a woman, and every woman I know HATES JERKS.

I LOVVVE nice guys, be very nice and sweet and funny and romantic! That's what all women love! We HATE jerks. They're SOOO dumb.

Answer 10

When girls mature, they will realize how much better of a person you are.  I was attracted to the "bad boys" in high school, but when I got to college, I found an extremely nice guy.  Keep treating women with respect, and eventually you'll find one that appreciates you.  And the women that like jerks are not the type of women that you would want.

Answer 11

Most women don't like jerks.  Most girls haven't learned out to separate nice guys from jerks yet.  Some girls don't think they deserve a 'nice guy'.  Some might think being too nice is boring.

You have to really get to know someone to know who they really are.

Answer 12

Same reason guys like s**ts and bi*ches.

They are easier to get.

Answer 13

becoz they're jerks n they're so hard to get,n to be faithful

we like the hard deals...sorry dud

Answer 14

You need to assert yourself.  Jerks get dates because jerks are assertive.  Not all women like jerks, though.  Most grow out of it.