Why do women seem to get a kick out of making guys do feminine things like holding their purse in public or?

Question

putting on one of their dresses at home?

Answer 1

I have never made my man put my dress on; but yes occasionally if no women were around that I know I have him hold my purse.  He doesn't care though.  However if your lady is having you put her dress on it may just be s**y for her to see that your comfortable doing something that is feminine.

Answer 2

they find it funny

Answer 3

I man HATES when I ask him to hold my purse.  He just stares at me for a moment and says "Why don't you take it with you?" but usually he's very sweet about it and will take it anyway.  Though he does put it at his feet and watches it instead of holding it.  I never complain that he's putting my purse on the ground because at least he's taking it at all!!

I don't get a "kick out of it" but I do appreciate him doing it.

Answer 4

More importantly, why do the guys do it?  I think they need to take the responsibility here...

Answer 5

If a woman makes me do that it means to me she wants me to take control of her life and I start by sorting out her purse and throwing away what she does not need or is used up.

Answer 6

I must say that it has never occurred to me to "get a kick out of" having my partner hold my purse, and why on earth is any woman asking her man to put on one of her dresses????

Anyway, the only time he holds my purse is if I'm trying to look through something and it keeps getting in the way.  Then he just takes it and slings it over his shoulder and asks, "Does this go with my outfit?"

Answer 7

I believe you mean do women get a kick out of being laughed at when they ask such things.

BTW, for any who are not aware, this type of thing is a test of who's in charge.

Answer 8

lmao ah is she making you do these things lol ah the power of p****.

Answer 9

Sometimes they do it to feel empowered other times becaus they are tired of holding it themselves, if the first reason is why they are doing it then it is a power play and is also a very immature/girlish

The second thing is them just trying to excert power over you, it doesn't have to be as extreme as wearing a dress, it could be getting a pedacure/manacure, wearing her underwear or make up

Answer 10

No woman has ever asked me to put on one of her dresses or undies.  And if you call holding someone's purse in public feminine, God help you.

Answer 11

Why do men agree to do these things if it bothers them?

Answer 12

Ah, it's our daily visit from the "how many unlikely scenarios can I post that will give me cross-dressing kicks?" poster.