Why do women showcase their breast by showing cleavage and get offended if people glance down at them ?

Question

Why do women showcase their breast by showing cleavage and get offended if people just glance down at them ?

Answer 1

Stare when we can't see you staring. We like to show them off and have people look, just not stare. Woohoo boobies!!

Answer 2

Women who purposely show much cleavage have no class.  

While this doesn't excuse harassment, rape, or other crimes like that, I find it ironic when women show off a lot of cleavage and then get mad when people look.  

They do it for the power reasons, because too many men don't have enough sense to think clearly when they see it.  There is no other reason women show it off when they supposedly get so offended by people staring.  Although, there are occasions I'm not sure a woman realizes how much is showing.

Answer 3

We don't mind a glance as long as you don't ogle and drool.

Answer 4

If they want to act like whores I only wish they'd expect to be treated like one.

Whatever happened to class?

Answer 5

The group that seems to do it the most is the 15-20 crowd and they do it the most because they arebeginningg to understand the power and attention thatexploitinggtheirr sexuality brings but remain unaware of the consequences hence they where low cut shirts and flash the goods at waiters for better service, teachers for better grades, and boys that they like for attention but getangryy at strangers or adults who look because they are too immature to realize that when they put themselves on display they are inviting unwanted attention with the wanted attention. In other words, they want the benefits of exploiting their sexuality but not the responsibility

Answer 6

All women on so level want others to think they are hot. Why they get mad is beyond my comprehension.

I think men should start showing off the ends of their balls, at the bottom of short shorts. When women stare they should scream at them, "Stop making me feel like a s*x object, their just a part of my body!"

Answer 7

they shouldn't be offended by a glance.  though they should be aware when wearing such tops that if they bend over, they are displaying a  lot more.  if you don't want people staring, don't wear tops that low, or place your hand pver your chest when you do bend over.

Answer 8

ahah goood question

Answer 9

I just let all of you stare. I take it as a compliment really. I don't show a lot of myself but I still find people staring.

(How do you like my ears? I changed from Bunny ears to cat ears! What do you think?)

Answer 10

I don't flaunt them all that often or to a great extent.  However, people usually flaunt their assets (whatever they may be) because we like it when people look.  Just remember that my b*****s can't carry a conversation.  If you're going to speak to me, speak TO ME, not AT my b*****s.

Answer 11

If you keep complaining, they'll stop doing it. Don't ruin it for the rest of us. We don't mind a little heat for the view.

Answer 12

Glancing is to be expected when highlighting a secondary s*x organ. It IS going to happen, but staring is just rude. Always has been- its just a rule of society.

Answer 13

depends on a couple variables...

1) what do you consider "showcasing"

2) there's a huge difference between staring without respect for this person and noticing something that looks nice... if you have to ask this question I would presume you are the type that does the first. Bottom line, a man that notices kindly, but doesnt let it consume him is more appealing to an attractive mature women... duh

Answer 14

Some want to look like women in the media but don't understand that they are exposing themselves TO generate sexual attention and most likely won't dress like that down in the local. Its pretty foolish.

It also depends who is looking and how they are looking. With the right person they will bend over to deliberately catch their eye.

An other thing about women, they are competing with other women, so her sexual display might have nothing to do with attracting male attention at all.

Answer 15

Stare Away as long as I don't catch you, then there will be h**l to pay.

Answer 16

Great question, I think it's been pretty well answered too.

I will say that there is another group of females that do it unintentionally, and they get very offended because they don't realize they're wearing something that shows them off.

Case and point,

I have a friend I met at work a little more than a year ago and we've stayed in touch and hang out a lot. She's fun to be around (well she used to be... ever since she made a move on me it's been a little awkward because I don't like her like that), but she is totally unaware of her social impact on others. We were walking downtown one day and I noticed she was wearing a totally revealing shirt that was in terrible taste (it was kind of like a swim suit and she's slightly overweight), but her b*****s were huge, so they were spilling over. She actually asked me why men always stare at her b***s! But she also made the comment that I never even look... so I told her that she is wearing a very revealing shirt that invited that sort of attention from other guys.

Well she took that as an insult and yelled back "Hey! I dress very respectfully and very conservatively!"

I laughed and we didn't talk for the rest of the day... lol

Answer 17

I show off cleavage wearing a turtle neck.  I certainly don't mind people noticing my b*****s.  All I ask is that if you want to talk to me, don't talk to my b*****s.  They don't have eyes or a mouth.  If you talk to them, you won't get a response.

Answer 18

There is a difference between glancing and staring. Glancing is ok. Staring is not.

Answer 19

You should be aware that women dress to make other women jealous of their attributes and to make themselves feel s**y.  Shhh...don't tell!

Answer 20

I've found that the ones that are offended by an occasional glance are only offended if they find you unattractive - these women are not worth your time or anyone else's.

Most women dislike the staring and drooling - and if you are doing that then you have problems, not them.

Answer 21

I suspect you're doing more than "glancing."

"Glancing" is fine. "Staring and drooling" is not.

Answer 22

I frankly don't know why they do it, but I really enjoy it so I really have no issue with this practice (I hope it doesn't change).

Answer 23

entrapment !!

Answer 24

A woman has no right to get mad if she wears a low cut shirt men will look at her breast

Answer 25

I've never understood that one. If you don't want men to talk to your chest, cover it up. Simple as that. If you don't mind, then wear whatever and don't whine if someone notices them.  

Answer 26

With my mammoth bosom, I can either show a little cleavage or wear such a high neckline that I look shapeless and round.

If people glance...who cares, but gaping makes them look pretty classless.

Answer 27

So, I'm allowed to drawl over a guy, if He took of his shirt to play a match?...I don't think so.  

Answer 28

It's a contradiction; however some women here say it's ok to glance.