Why do women treat men this way and expect us to take them seriously?

Question

Everytime I date a woman, she ends up either marrying another guy or seriously dating some banker or lawyer after a few months. When I ask what happened, the answer is always: "Well, you've just got a big dikk for one thing; the s*x is great, but I just didn't trust that it would go anywhere further down the line." How can they tell how I feel or what I want???

Answer 1

Either you're dating some pretty shallow women or you're putting off the vibe that you're only interested in a good time.  If you're dating someone you think is special let her know how you feel and what you're looking for.

Answer 2

Actually they don't care what you feel or what you want. There's something about you that they just don't like. You need to find out what it is and fix it.

Answer 3

if what you say is true they would stay...it seems they are lying to you about the s*x thing to spare your feelings.

Answer 4

  it takes a certain kind of person to have what it takes to stay with people who are outspoken and what most people consider abrasive. you know the old " birds of a feather "routine. i personally cannot take a wishy washy guy. so if you really want to be with someone for the long haul, look for someone more like you ,who will like you for who you are.

Answer 5

Do you actually WANT commitment?

Women have a sixth sense about these things

They may see you as being the 'in between guy' but not serious enough to contemplate marriage or whatever

Its a difficult situation - coz if you're not ready for marriage and commitment you're just seen as the ''good time guy''

I kinda have the same problem myself - and yes - just because I am a fun loving sociable girl doesn't mean I don't have a heart ... its just not ready for commitment - but I do still want a PROPER relationship with loyalty and devotion - not some half hearted affair!!

Answer 6

Men and women are entirely different in how we handle the end of a relationship, as well as how we handle our feelings. The reason she was able to move on and leave you without a doubt that it was the right move, was because women have the ability to tell themselves several months prior to doing so, that leaving you is the right choice, and so they find a way to get over you while your still around, in doing so when it finally comes time for the big break, they can enter a new relationship. A relationship might I add that has a strong chance of being a healthy 1 since she got over you while still with you. I had this happen to me once with a girl who I had been with for years, and last I heard she is getting married to the guy who she dated just after me. Just do yourself a favor and handle it as followed. From now on when you find a girl you really like alot, take 2 steps back. Continue dating her and say and do the same things you normally would, however dont get "TO" emotionally envolved. Its always better to have them love you more then you love them, this way when sh*t hits the fan, it doesnt hurt and your ready for it. Always keep the upper hand, and you'll be a much happier person, and making the hard decisions in relationships will always be easy for you.  

Answer 7

there the wrong girls... u gotta say what you want or find out what they want before you start

Answer 8

If you are honest with them about how you are feeling then they might stay. Yet if you don't want to talk or you feel like you shouldn't have to tell a person you care, then how are they going to know what you are thinking or feeling? So they might be leaving you because you are not opening yourself up emotionally to them.