Why do you get that one person that does everything backwards?

Question

And no I am not talking about mentally backwards I mean somebody that does even the most smallest and normal thing in an annoying way just to annoy you. For example I am 21 and my mother does everything the annoying way, I when I have a shower at hers I ask her to pass me some sop out so the cupboard and instead of placing the sop into my hands she puts it onto the tip of my shoulder so that when I turn around it falls onto the floor. Weird things like that. Also I am dyslexic and have a verbal communication problem and she asks me to spell things aloud for her.

Do you know anybody that does things like this?

Answer 1

There is more than one out there i can ashore you.

Answer 2

from what you have said it just sounds like she is imature try telling her to grow up

Answer 3

You're 21 and you allow your mother to control your life?

Let's start over.

Answer 4

Wait till she has a shower and hand her some trick soap,,

Answer 5

It's hard to diagnose without further assessment but those symptoms sound very much like Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Have you always felt like you were the grown up one in the relationship?

http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Bookl...

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Adu...

Unfortunately, this is the one personality disorder which is hard to treat. Most children of narcissisitic parent/s are advised to limit their visits.