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Why do you hate people on welfare?

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I was thinking about this today as I stood in a long line at the store. At the front of the line was a woman with a pile of wic checks getting a bunch of baby formula. People in line were giving her this look like "ugh, how dare you exist".

American's give money to everyone. We as a nation just gave a ton of money and food and medical supplies to Georgia. We as a nation are always donating food and money to other countries. You never hear anyone complaining about that. But when we feed the hungry and under privileged children in our own country people get really defensive.

And I'm not talking about people who have kid after kid to stay on welfare. I'm talking about the families who truly need it. The families where one parent gets laid off and the only way to make ends meet is to get a little help. A temporary solution.

Now, the people in line at the store didn't know this woman's story. They just all judged her for wasting their time and holding up the line to get her baby some food. It can't be jealousy. If you don't have a child under 1, you don't need or want baby formula. It had to be their righteous feelings that they are better than this woman because they are paying cash for their stuff. It can't even be a "ugh, thats my tax dollars" because no one was shaking their heads at the newspaper headlines saying "Tens of thousands of dollars of relief sent to Georgia"... that is "your" tax dollars too.

Someone explain to me why there is so much negativity towards people getting a little help. Again, not the people abusing the system, just those who fell on hard times and are doing everything they can to get back on their feet. You can't tell who is who.

And just to add, I was raised in a household with poor beliefs and my father was always talking about how the "red welfare states should get a job"

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  1. I do not hate people on welfare at all but I can understand why others would hate a person on welfare. Yes, there are people on welfare trying their very hard to make ends meet and there are people on welfare that cannot work because of severe diseases and disabilities. Unfortunately, this is the world and the devil is there to mess people up. Yes, there are people out there on welfare that can work but instead they just sit on the couch all day playing videogames or w/e and receive free money while others are working their a** off. Those people give the people on welfare a bad name, the saying

    "One bad apple spoils a bunch" (or something like that) applies here.

    Also, thank the media for making it look like all people on welfare are lazy, crooks, poor, rude and using everyone's money to make their lazy ends meet, if there is ONE thing corrupting the minds of regular people of those on welfare, its our media always nitpicking the negatives of this country.

    I do feel sorry for that woman that was looked upon as she was but I do believe that if she is mature enough and smart enough, she will get a job and find ways to make life better for her child.


  2. i personally dont have a problem with welfare. i grew up in a trailor wit my grandma cuz my parent were too spun and drunk to take care of me... still have a really bad relationship with them. im always in an out of livin with them. but hey, if they get u the things u need... f*ck everone else. ur doin wat u can to supoort urself an the child/children u have. if they was in their shoes, they would feel the same way!!

  3. I don't hate the welfare concept.

    I do hate all previous administration and the cheats who worked an

    inept administrative system.


  4. i didnt even know that wic is wel fare. And I totally agree with you. What is wrong with social programs? We spends billions of dollars in iraq daily

  5. i do not hate any one!!!!  i do think it is a shame that we have people on welfare!!!!

  6. tl;dr

  7. I don't. I can careless if someone is on welfare or not. It's like like it personally directly affects me. Some people need help in life, id rather see them get help than be on the street suffering !i

  8. Its because people are really ignorant and they think they know everything.  You should read the remarks I get when I ask a question about welfare.  I don't even let anyone know except my close friends and family.  I try to hid my EBT card when I swipe it because I know people look at you weird.  Like just today I was at the store and the bag lady gave me a dirty look when I swiped my EBT card.  She knew nothing about me. She had no idea that I left my baby's father because he was abusive.  She has no idea they have a child support order and he is paying back every penny I receive.  She had no idea that I am a full time nursing student with a 4.0 gpa and in addition am doing a fulltime (unpaid) internship at a hospital.  I had just got off my shift from 4am-12am, picked up my baby, changed clothes and went to the grocery store to get some groceries.  She just assumed probably I just woke up, do nothing all day and decided to go to the store or something.  I remember one question I asked about welfare and some lady had the nerve to tell me that I need to get my act together and she has no pity for anyone on welfare.  I was like, "um excuse me, I probably have my act together way more than you could ever imaging having yours together."  I just like to tell these people off, prove them stupid, and stick their foot so far in their mouths.

  9. Ok, here's my standing on this hun. I don't mind paying my taxes to support welfare for people who actually need and deserve it. Some people literally LIVE off of it and never really try to give back. Welfare is provided so that it can HELP you get back on your own two feet. It's there when you really honestly are in a tuffle and need some extra cash to feed your family when you're between jobs. There is no possible way in h**l that a person can be between jobs for 5 years. Sorry. Get a job at a fast food restaurant if need be.

    But this is why your dad didn't like them: they lived off the welfare, never made it on their own, expected hand-outs from those who actually earned their own money and then want to make fun of those who do pay their taxes and have jobs because they can't go out every friday night or they have a crappy uniform. That's why your dad said this. Now, I know quite a few people on welfare right now but they're working and will soon be off of it. It's just supposed to be there for when times are hard. And if you use it properly then I don't mind paying my taxes to help you out. If you abuse it, then I personally think you need to be cut off after 6 months.

    -Later Gator-

  10. I agree it's not right for everyone to assume everyone on welfare wants to be there and judge them for that. But I can see why everyone thinks that way because there are so many people out there who are capable of working and just don't. It's easier for them to be lazy and get free money. They have made added a lot of negativity onto welfare.

  11. Some people abuse the system, and that's a shame because there are deserving families out there who truly do need help.  

  12. not the ones you ACTUALLY NEED IT, but there are some douche bags out there who dont. And they need to get up off their lazy asses and work

  13. See, the thing about the "people on welfare need to work too, they can't just use it as an excuse to be idle" attitude that some people espouse is that it's not as though there's some sort of welfare crisis, with millions of Americans exploiting the welfare system...the idea that across the country there are slums and ghettos filled with people sitting around all day, watching television and living the good life while the honest, hard-working middle class slaves away to support their idle lifestyles is a complete and total myth. Don't believe a word of it.  

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