Why do you judge me?

Question

i'm a top contributor and a human being. I asked a question an hour ago about my son, who is a homosexual, and received nothing but hate instead of legitimate advice. The users of answers accuse me of hatred and bias, yet all of your responses had animosity directed at me. I would like some intelligent people to respond to this in an intelligent manner.

Answer 1

i can tell you what to do..educate yourself....love him with all your heart, and accept him for who he is no matter what...thats the answer you need...hold on to him with all your might...even though at this point you dont understand...pretend you do, until you can really grasp it. it will take some time, patience, and alot of love

kelly b

Answer 2

Dear, you and your son are not specialist to deicide/identify the homosexual.

Do you thing bringing this issue here would help!

Advise you to see specialist/ consultant. Talk to him about what man is doing with women and explain the attraction thing for both.

How old you son is? To me, he is a man if he wants too and will be a g*y he wants to.

Answer 3

this was the question

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I just found out my son is g*y. What should I do?

I have it narrowed to three choices

1. move without telling him

2. get him a subscription to a pornagraphic gentleman's magazine

3. Electrotherapy

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i tough that other ppl where being homophobic, but it was actually you.

i looked at your previous post and you probably recieved hate because, the question you asked was startlingly ignorant, of course this maynot be your fault, you where raised to think this way, and you dont know how to react to this piece of news.

maybe you should educate your self on g*y teenagers.

http://life.familyeducation.com/teen/s*x...

go here and just READ IT.and see if you dont understand yet, im not trying to force you to my way of thinking, im just asking  you to read the page.

Answer 4

Sometimes people are just small minded, and some people on here just do like to abuse people.  Also it depends on how you phrased your question - if you *seemed* nasty, people respond to that.  IF not people are just idiots!  :)

Answer 5

I didn't see your question about your son. I'm sorry the answers were so filled with hatred. I've noticed so much of that on these lists. If a person disagrees they resort to name calling and profanity. It's not necessary. I'm going to try to find your question,

I don't judge you nor do I hate you, and I would bet most people on this list feel the same way.  

Answer 6

It's not so much that I judge you...it's more of an overwhelming indifference towards your humanity. This medium allows me to de-humanize you, treat you as if you don't really exist at all, at least on any level approaching a cordial interaction or fledgling exchange. The very few people who have broken past my veneer I've shifted considerably towards in my attitude. Most of the characters on here though, well they simply aren't worth the effort to treat as humans, nor do their problems interest me past the point of mocking or making some sort of amusement at their expense. Your problems are not real to me. Your belief or lack of belief is meaningless, there is no context to fix it. I'm cold and uncaring. I do wonder though, is it refreshing to read the truth about how most people actually think. I wonder. anyway I hope this clears it up, at least about how I see it all.

Answer 7

a top human being would not consider abandoning their son, or electrocuting them.

I, as well as the majority of other people replying to your two posts are intelligent people. u deserve all the animosity u hav recieved as ur views are disgusting.

religion is supposed to inspire hope and love, not hate for fellow people, your son no less. u are disregarding your filial responsibilities in the name of a highly hypocritical (and for lack of a better word-stupid) religion. it is as i said before, disgusting. isnt your son more important then a book written by MEN, not GOD.

u are a close-minded, homophobic arsewipe. u dont deserve to have a child. people all over the world are dyign to have babies and you see fit to abandon your's because of something they cannot change. would u throw him out if he were disabled too? i guess it's good for him that he's not blind.

shouldt his happiness be above your stupid religious views?

u disgust me.

Answer 8

i know  a few guy who are g*y, and they are still the same person as they were before they came out and told people,

he your son so love no mater what, it doesnt mater if he straight or g*y because he still the same , as he was before he told you....

Answer 9

Look man, your a dumb f**k, why do you think that people are sending you messages of hate, "and Im a catholic!" CATHOLIC MY A$$, Seriously, take option one, and move to that new condo in h**l. AND BURN WHILE YOUR AT IT.

Answer 10

Because we're all rude selfish peices of scum.

I, on the other hand know that I am a good person.

I judge you because I want to.

You're a stupid ****.

Answer 11

It never 100% that your son is like that. I understand your situation and of course people wouldn't be answering in a proper way.

Just let it go and always remember that some people may be answering just to earn points but not to really help you.  

Answer 12

people are messed up in the head nowadays

Answer 13

I think if the asker makes too ridiculous a question, answerers just tell him/her that it's ridiculous, or absurd. Or vice versa.

There is little need for us to put ourselves into the others' shoes and feel all worked up and puffed up over a bad question/answer.

Answer 14

Well it is up to you what to do with your son's situation.  But how do you think the community will react?  Some people will not abandon their son no matter what religion they have and I have a feeling you knew that when you asked the question.

You also seem like you are a troll.  Your question was phrased in a non-serious manner:

"1. move without telling him

2. get him a subscription to a pornagraphic gentleman's magazine

3. Electrotherapy"

Those are not serious options, and your name does not help "Smarterthanyou".

Answer 15

maybe because your son wasn't raised properly (i said maybe)

Answer 16

I'm sorry they judged you I hope they did not discouraged you about seeking any more help from yahoo answers.  

Answer 17

maybe because your answer possibilities were:

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I just found out my son is g*y. What should I do?

I have it narrowed to three choices

1. move without telling him

2. get him a subscription to a pornagraphic gentleman's magazine

3. Electrotherapy

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Answer 18

i dont know what your question was but you have to remember that sexuality is always a touch and go subject, specifically homosexuality.  personally i dont have a problem with it.  life is to short to sweat the small things.  if your son is happy with his life who cares whether he likes men or women.  as a parent i think its out obligation to love and support out kids no matter who they are.

Answer 19

well there nothing you can really do really sorry but that just the way it is if hes g*y hes g*y he will always be you r son no matter what and you should love him no matter what g*y or not g*y that just they way he is if you really love your son the one thing that would happer to you is hes happyness  Why do you judge me you say why do you judge your son????

Answer 20

Hey, it doesn't make a slightest difference that you're a top contributor when your attitude and question about your son is full of ignorance and hate. Big deal you're a tc!

What matters is your son. The fact is he's g*y and a human being just like you. Reflect on what you've said previously. How would you feel if your own parents said the same things about you?

WHY would you and HOW can you expect others to be accepting of your bigoted attitude when you're not accepting of others?—your son in particular. Drop the judgmental attitude towards your son if you don't want to be judged by others.

This is all a hoax, isn't it? I feel sorry for you.