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Why do you think a man who hates to entertain would ask a young cute coworker to dinner with her husband?

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Ok. Tell me if I'm worried for nothing. My husband tells me he can't stand to have parties and literally tears a fit every time I plan to invite small or large groups of people over to dinner. (ok, I can understand large groups are hard to manage since it's just the two of us, and we usually cater an entire meal for all) He has never (we've been married 18 years) asked a co-worker to come to the house for dinner. Our circle of friends has never included coworkers of mine or of his. He started a new job, which he actually likes for a change, it's a small company, so definately more personable between the employees. He's been on the new job 6 months. He has invited 2 couples from the work place to dinner this weekend. One couple cancelled at the last minute, which left.........the young gal from his work and her husband. She seems to be in love with her husband, my husband shows nothing out of the ordinary towards me. But, she obviously talks to my husband daily about our life,and the things we do such as hobbies, and the improvements we've made to the house, etc etc. To know my husband, when he finds a person willing to listen, he can talk too much. She knows alot about what happens in my house. AND, for the first 20 minutes she is in my house for the very first time, she sorta ignores me, but that did change. Maybe she needed to get warmed up..... What do you think? does he have a little crush on her? Should I confront him on this?

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  1. Anyone ever tell you that you are paranoid??  That's pretty crazy that you suspect something when he invites his co worker and her spouse!!


  2. So he could be close to the coworker. DA ! Stevie Wonder could have seen that.



  3.   Don,t even go there .

  4. You should really clam down.  He invited her and HER HUSBAND plus another couple.  He was trying to be nice and fit in at his new job.  Maybe he has a lot in common with this woman.  If you still have these feelings after a while talk to him about it.  He will say the same thing that we are telling you.

  5. Chill out, he invited both couples, one cancelled, of course she would talk to him first, she knows him better!  Unless your husband has cheated before I wouldnt worry about it.  

  6. Oh I'm sure you can bet good money there's an affair that's been going on already for a while now


  7. This situation stinks.... make it your business to find out what is really going on here.  But do it quietly.

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