Why do you think my ex hates me so much?

Question

I was with my ex for 3 years, we have 2 kids together, he dump me for another chick, the problem is that when I have called him regarding our kids visitation schedule he does not answer me, and when he does. he starts telling me that I'm ugly and a nobody, why do you think there's so much hatred, if we both have move on? Should it matter anymore?

Answer 1

FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR KIDS

build up your self esteem so the ex has no impact on you (OR THE KIDS)....

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Answer 2

He feels you are desparate en he just want to hurt you why dont u stop even calling him that s how men feels when they know like u love them en u still care just forget him  

Answer 3

People aren't generally hateful by nature...there must be an underlying cause...custody issues, rubbing issues in his face, etc. Whatever it is, it's a personal attact toward your character. He want's you to know how he feels about you and that he's upset by something that you have done...now whether or not you knew you did something wrong is a different story...Just ask him why he has so much hate for you and he just might tell ya'!

Answer 4

he doesnt hate you, he just doesnt want to see you happy, because if you are happy and find someone else then when things go wrong for him *and they will* he will not be able to go back to you and he feels stable with you, but would rather be out s******g around.

anytime a guy/girl says that to their significiant other it is because they are afraid to loose them and they want their self esteem to lower so they have a better chance of being alone...i know someone who went through this and had to get counceling for it, and that is what they told her...

Answer 5

Stop calling him. Let him call you when he wants to see the kids. And then only answer if you feel like it.

Answer 6

perhaps his NEW relationship( OR life)  is not a rosie as you think. Perhaps he really is a looser and wants nothing to do with his kids or you. Stop calling him it seems to him that you are begging him back. Let your kids call if they want to talk to their father. Let him go find new ways to deal with him . Unless one of your children become sick I see no need really for you to be calling and chatting with him. Separate your self from nonsense and you will have a NO nonsense life.

stop beating a dead horse, He has clarified what he wants from you.

obviously he is an idiot.

Answer 7

he feels guilty and doesn't know how to deal with it;

Answer 8

He's probably trying to make you feel like you are the one of the fault but actually I think he's feeling guilty. Don't listen to him If he doesn't go to see his kids then it's his loss.