Why do you women still not understand how marriage works?

Question

It's really simple. You don't put out and the man will find other ways outside of your marriage to get off, which seems to be the bulk of your problems.

You do the things a good wife is expected to do, like sexually please your husbands and for the most part your households will be happy homes...what is it that is so difficult for you broads to understand about this simple law of life?

Answer 1

I would not go to those extremes in language but I do agree with you.  They gave it to you to get you but you know the old saying, "Once they say I do they say I don't afterwards"

Answer 2

if someone just wanted you to spread em then you would get tired of it too. a woman needs to feel loved,appreciated ,and desired and then her husband will be taken care of. the question here should be "why dont men know how to treat the one they say they love."

Answer 3

You will never be in a happy marriage with your attitude. You obviously have no intelligence and you have alot to learn about marriage.  

Answer 4

That's what I thought once!  My man got it almost anytime he wanted!  (just not if I was sick)

But I started losing any sexual desire for him because outside of s*x he has nothing but negative comments for me.  I am tired of feeling worthless.  but I still give him s*x every Saturday (without complaint)!  So, no, giving your man s*x is not enough to insure a good marriage!

I'm in full agreement with Kaia (above).

Not only that, but you need to be a little sensitive  to the fact that everyone has different levels of libido.  Are you so selfish that you demand she turn s*x into a chore just to please you?  Shouldn't s*x be mutually fulfilling?

Answer 5

ok dude first of all us women are not s*x toys we have feelings to and we dnt just bang and live under ur d**n rules to clean the mess u make it works like this u fall in love with the women for who she is and not for how good she bangs u and a relationship is not only about s*x and cleaning its about makin each other happy not to live like ur god d**n slave so if u dnt like it marry a blow up doll and bang her all the d**n time  

Answer 6

What is it about you men that you can't understand not everything should revolve around s*x?

I would say to women who 'lose' their husbands to some other floozy he finds attractive because his wife might be tired or it's that time of the month - go and buy a bottle of champagne and have a party! He has saved you years of wondering if he is worth anything as a human being.

By doing such a low thing then he belongs in the spineless category of men who can't keep their trousers up. For those men who belong in that category of rodent, there are clinics to help cure you of being constantly on heat and seeing every woman as needing your manly charms. Start being human and your wife might start liking you again - and you might get it more often.

Answer 7

Well, even though you put this a tad crudely, I absolutely, 100% agree with you.  The difference between a sexually satisfied husband and a sexually UNsatisfied husband is quite striking.  When a man gets married he expects that now he will not have to walk around frustrated:   he'll be able to get it whenever he wants it.  Too many women hold themselves back and/or use it as a weapon.  It's really a win/win situation when you are free sexually with your husband.  My husband knows he can get it anytime he wants as often as he wants from me, and I do believe the man would do anything for me.

Edit:  a wife WILL be loved, appreciated, desired, and adored by her husband if she gives herself to him freely.

Edit again:  I so agree with you.  Why do wives act like it's some kind of an insult b/c their husband, GASP, wants s*x from them?  My husband desires me and me alone, and he treats me like a queen.  He respects and adores me and does everything he can think of to make me happy, for God's sake.  This is all a good thing!

Edit, edit:  I agree, it is a wife's "job" to take care of her husband sexually.  I know a lot of people won't like the word "job", but that's just one way of putting it.  Where else is he supposed to get it?  We have certain expectations of our husbands when we get married and they have expectations of us as well.  s*x is not only one of them, it is most likely the biggest one for the man.  There's just nothing wrong with that.

Answer 8

(*laughter*) You're funny.

This sort of attitude is why, when you're older and on your 2nd or 3rd divorce, no woman in her right mind will want to have a thing to do with you.  It won't be the divorces, or the fact that you're paying child support (or should be), it'll be because you'll come across as actually being this adamant about women being "broads" and what it takes to be a "good wife".

There are also things required for you to be a "good husband".  One of those is respect.  Another is appreciation. Your ability to be a "good husband" will seriously impact whether or not she wants you within 4 feet of her or not.  

Oh..and "sexually pleasing" is a two way street.  If you're taking the time to make her happy, then your chances of getting it returned are MUCH higher.  If you aren't, then your useful purpose would be....what?  

(*laughter*) And I just read your additional details....I know of NO situation where the guy is the only one bringing home the money.  In my case (many many years) ago, despite being 7 years younger than he was...I was the sole support of my family for the majority of it.  

Let's put this in perspective...let's say...he's the one bringing home the money...in your scenario...she's just spent the entire day caring for children, cleaning house, cooking, doing laundry, vacuuming, dusting, cleaning up after the kids, changing diapers, grocery shopping, folding clothes, putting them away....and heaven only knows what else.  Now, she's supposed to greet him with..."oooh baby...i'm so hot for you"?  Seriously,,,she's put in her own full time plus "job".  Get a reality check.  And if you think being a stay at home wife/mother is easy..take the kids for a long weekend and send her away.  See how you're doing at the end of it...and make sure you do the same things.

It's a partnership..not a demand for services.