Why does a 49 year old man want my 20 year old daughter...? He has no money or anything.?

Question

They met when she was 18 and they worked together. He tells her that he isn't IN love with her, but loves her.

They do everything together and have a lot in common as far as what they like to do. But I think he needs to let her go and have a live like she should have.

He has nothing to offer her.

His sons are 16!

Answer 1

Is it possible they are just good friends? Let her go??? Is she exclusive to him? (bf/gf) Is he stopping her from dating? I am 51 and get along great with my daughters, 21/26/28. We are good friends. Dating doesn't have to start at 18 or 20 or even 27. Be grateful she's not single and pregnant. The older she is when she finds Mr right, the more mature choice she will make.

Answer 2

i'd guess he wants some big ol' s*x.

Answer 3

'cause he's an old pervert.

And what the h**l does your daughter see in him?  What is she looking for a father figure.....

Gross.

I am a grown woman and wouldn't date someone that old.  He could never keep up with me.  No way.

Answer 4

well if he told her he isnt IN love with her then he obviously does not want a relationship.She may look at him like a father figure or if she does not have many men in her life then a role model.

I grew up without men in my life and older men appeal to me, not in a sexual way of course, but i tend to listen to them more and really enjoy their company, probably because it was an absent part of me for so long.  

Answer 5

Because she is probably hot.  Can I get her number?

Answer 6

There could be many things he sees in your daughter. I'm sure a lot of people are going to say s*x, let's face it...most guys want s*x, this guy might want something more (people need to stop making assumptions...). The fact is (and i'm not trying to sound mean) you don't know absolutely everything about their relationship. You say he has nothing to offer...well maybe material wise he doesn't but that doesn't rule out everything else.

Give your daughter the chance to be the adult that she is and let her make her own decisions...if she comes to you for advice, so be it. But don't interfere just because he has no money and he's older than her.

Answer 7

He wants your 20 year old daughter because she is young and since he known her since she was 18 he probably feels very comfortable with her despite the age difference.

But if you ask me I think that he should leave her along too.

Answer 8

are u seriosly that dumb that u cant figure this out

Answer 9

He is old enouugh to be her Father. I think he is going thru a midlife crisis. Men often seek out really young women to feel this needs during this time. It is actually quite sick. I would be afraid- very afraid.  

Answer 10

He has a p***s and thats what he can offer her, plus the charm that older men usually have that younger guys her own age dont have yet....so tell your daughter that she's being used for her body & that she could be his daughter and that they should be nothing more than friends.

Answer 11

He sounds like a bit of a predator or a guy having a midlife crisis. Either way, I'd say it's GROSS on both ends. I'm wondering, where is your daughter's dad that she is receiving his gestures? That to me says she didn't have a good relationship with her dad and is trying to replace/recreate what she lacked...  

Answer 12

so when she's his age.............

he'll be dead...........

29 years is insane.........

Answer 13

Woah...If anyone she should be dating his sons...What a weirdo.

Answer 14

Having a young honey strokes his ego.

s*x

wants to mold her into the 'woman' of his dreams

control freak

the other question is why won't woman his own age have anything to do with him.....

:(

Answer 15

Geez, nothing like dating someone thats old enough to be your dad.  He wants s*x prob.  Nothing like having a step-mom who's 4 years older then you.

Answer 16

Tell me you're not really that naive.

She's banging him.  

Answer 17

well if she likes him then let them go.

she's over 18 so she can be with whoever however old they are.

is it creepy yess!

but hey.