I do not understand why my daughter says to her father, my husband, that he wants her to divorce, and that she knows that because he said to her one day: "After your wedding, whatever happens to you, I will always be there to support you ; even if things break down, I will always be there to help you." I remember he had said these words because our daughter kept saying to her father : "I do not want to marry to divorce!", "I will marry, never to divorce", and those sentences seemed to me very strange because I did not understand why my daughter insisted upon that instead of talking about the way she wanted to marry, the people she wanted to invite, etc... After her wedding, my husband and I helped her and her husband by doing the gardening and other tasks because we thought it normal to share tasks, but they finally said they felt "aggressed", "not secure". I do not understand what is happening now that they have decided that we will never see our grandchildren again. I must say that my daughter's husband is only 10 years younger than my husband and 13 years older than my daughter. My son-in-law thinks I am rude and violent, and he told me so ; he said that my daughter was far more clever than I was and that she understood him better than I could. I was surprised because I had never thought it was part of the relationship that a mother-in-law should be clever and understand her son-in-law very well and I still do not think that I should "compete with my daughter" in any case. Why does a daughter can think that and say to her father: "You want me to divorce because what you said to me before my wedding was a curse!"
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