Why does a so called friend not call you during hard times?

Question

Just when I need someone to talk too

my phone doesn't ring. : (

and they don't return my calls!

I'm so tired of it!!!!!!

Answer 1

If they were genuinely your friend they would be their for you in your times of struggle and need. A true friend would be their to comfort and provide for you to help you feel good when you need it the most. If your friend knows that you are in need of them and they make no effort to call or at least stop by their not really your friends at all.

Answer 2

It's just how it is.  

Answer 3

Why don't you just talk to God???

He is more interested in you than you are in Him.

Open up your heart to Him.

Answer 4

they dont sound like very good friends to me at all. Maybe you should find better friends!

Answer 5

That's so typical just when you could do with some nice words everyone disappears, then another time when your rushed everyone phones at once.

Remember the world is very small you are only an e mail away.

Answer 6

cuz their not ur real frnd

Answer 7

I'm tired of it too.

Answer 8

This must be awful for you Poppet,

I know myself how it feels when I so badly wish to talk to someone,but for me there are only my adult children.

The last thing I would do is burden them with my gripes.

Now about your friend, Is it possible that she herself is going through a bad patch, or is she away so not getting your calls?

If No, then I feel this friend is not really very valuable to you!

Stop calling then see how long it takes for your friend to call you. At least give them the benefit of the doubt,

they may have a good reason for no contact.

Otherwise Poppet,move on and start a fresh, Try to cheer up,Nothing is so bad it can't be resolved if you want it to be.

God Bless Sweetheart.x

Answer 9

Maybe they're busy?

If you need someone to talk to talk with your parents. If you don't want to talk with them and you insist on talking with a friend then keep trying to call them, text them, whatever.

Answer 10

You said it yourself. A "so called" friend. A true friend is always there for you no matter what is happening. If  you are tired of your friend's behavior and lack of support,  it's time now to find new friend's who will be there  for you when you need them. Friendship is a two way street, you will attract back what you give out.