Why does beauty has to get exposed to get other's attention ?

Question

I am a girl and I don't like to expose and for this reason people don't notice me that much.....but I have seen other girls wearing short tops and mini mini skirts just to show their body parts and in result every single boy thinks that "girl is hot"

why is this the way it is ?

also, I had a Muslim friend 5 years back and she was 18 at that time and she was just used to be like me in clothing style...but now I have seen her wearing mini skirts , and I met her parents last week and they were very upset becsuase of their daughter's changed behaviour towards so many things.....

I am confused that why girls need to expose themselves and then hear from everyone that they are so beautiful ????

no rude answers please

Answer 1

I'm 16 and I personally don't like to expose myself too much. I always seem to get the wrong kind of attention b/c I have a larger chest size than most in my school and I'm not obese so I kinda stand out a bit. I usually try to cover myself up with hoodies. I don't wear low cut tops either. I  own a couple or skirts but their not mini and if I wear them I make sure to wear leggings underneath cus I don't wanna look like a w***e. Idk..I try to cover myself up but still wear flattering clothing that shows off my curves in a good way.

Answer 2

Maybe they wanna have s-e-x

Answer 3

yea most of them want those compliments because it makes them feel good about themselbes and their bodies. i'm kinda insecure so i don't do that but i know lots of girls who will just for the attention. ppl like to get compliments and show off their body if thier hot. it's just not for me... i feel uncomftorable when a guy stares at... umm... those places lol but there's those who enjoy it too.

Answer 4

well some people just wnat to. but i mean if your wear fitted shirts , fitted jeans or w/e, that way you show you have a body without revealing. i too think that i shouldnt reveal much and i dont. like for swimming. i wear a swimsuit but its a one piece . my current one is a halter and i tie at back and its a one piece wiht a v neck. i dontwanna goaround wearing a bikini. i totally get what your saying and yeah.

Answer 5

well some girlz have the attitude:if u got it, flaunt it

others feel insecure and find it the only way to attract guys

i guess it's good to find a happy medium-nothing to revelaing but nothing to closed up..