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It seems to me that first parents (who voluntarily placed their children for adoption) did not "reject" their children but rather rejected THEMSELVES as parents. The two biggest reasons for voluntary placement are 1.) Finances 2.) Age - both widly regarded as inadequacies in a parent. This feeling of inadequacy is often what prompts the choice to relinquish. It seems to me that the vast majority of first parents love their children more than themselves. Choosing to carry a child to term, endure labor & delivery, and the grief and lifelong consequences of adoption in the hopes of providing your child a better life does not show rejection of the child in my eyes. So why the prevailing idea that these children were "unwanted" or "rejected"? Why do people not consider that it is the parent who actually rejected themselves? Any thoughts?
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