Why does everyone think that Black girls get upset when we see a Black guy with a different race?

Question

I was looking at this gorgeous Black guy for 2 sec and the girl he was with gave a mean look and comment. Hmm... I just thought he was cute. =) What has been your experience, upset or not?

Answer 1

Some black girls complain that it decreases their chances so they have fewer men to choose from.  Some take it personally, thinking that it makes them look bad if the guys are choosing other races "over" their own.  Some just consider it "selling out" and lack of "ethnic pride."

Answer 2

I guess they think we're jealous or something. No need to be jealous, be happy with who you're with. Color doesn't matter.

Answer 3

i have seen many posts by black women, complaining about black men dating white women.  its good that it doesnt bother you.  but it does bother some black women for some reason.

Answer 4

It isnt right that some one gives another person a bad face when they are with a person that they are attracted to and care for! It shouldnt matter what the races are not at all!! I love my boyfriend and I never think of our race!

Answer 5

Who cares... let them think what they want... I'm black & I go out with whoever I want, black guys & white guys. Someone's gonna complain or be a hater no matter whatcha do, trust me... It's not even worth contemplating. Just have fun with who you're with.

Answer 6

"EVERYONE" I DON'T GIVE A f*****k, HOW U FEEL.  

Answer 7

I can't deny that I dont, its silly I know, but I am Pakistani, when I saw my Pakistani friend marry a white blond chick I was like thinking...why?...are we not good enough? Lol its a silly impulse but later I realise that I am still better looking and its all good.

Answer 8

because it happens so much times. and you hear a lot of black girls complain like he think he too good for black women and that kind of thing.

Answer 9

Maybe she was trying to warn you that he is really on the "down low".

Answer 10

i don't think that.  it never even occured to me.  all i think about is s*x.

and the punk that broke into my car this morning.

Answer 11

because they have nothing else to do but group us as "angry" or jealous. But no one ever talks about the ww that get pissed when the see a bw with a wm or the bm as well. and from what ive seen theres really  no reason for a bw to hate on the women.

Answer 12

I am white, and went to a mostly hispanic/black school, and one day I asked a black girl the same question, and she said it was bad enough they had to compete with eachother for their men, they had to compete with white girls, too.

Still doesn't make much sense to me, but there you go.

Answer 13

I don't mind them dating other races

Answer 14

Nope, definitely not a big deal. :]