Why does everything happen when it doesn't matter?

Question

like if i want something really bad for months it wont happen

but when i forget about it or it doesn't matter anymore it happens

whats up with that?

Answer 1

Everything happens in its own

time.  When you want something,

you're checking, wondering

when it's going to happen.

It never materializes soon enough.

You lose interest, and if it's

going to happen, it does.

Answer 2

What an excellent question. What you have described here is the exact definition of 'Letting Go' (some will also add to that '... and Letting God'). Its great that you have had such an experience and have also come to appreciate it (in one way this is a step into awareness). When you let go of that which you really want, it happens naturally. Its because once you let go, you actually dissolve all the resistance and contradictions within you that were not allowing that thing to happen.

And I am thankful to you for sharing this experience here. It helps others to further enhance their belief in letting go. This is what having 'faith' is all about. Its not about having faith in god or some individual, but its about having faith from your experiences that what you want will always come to you if you just 'let go'.

Nurture this experience further and develop more faith in the process of 'letting go' and then nothing will ever be impossible for you. You will always know that its going to happen if you simply let go. Cool.

Wow... I am really happy for you. :-)  

Answer 3

Everything has it's own time and it will happen when it has to, and it probably happened at its own pace for the better. It is only human nature to lose interest in something over time, but the important thing to remember is that it did happen and that proves that your will was strong enough to make it happen.

Nothing never matters anymore, you willed for it and it happened, now it is your responsibility to make it matter.  

Answer 4

Because Life doesn't play by your rules, you play by Life's.

Answer 5

but does the fact that you eventually forget about it, or it becomes unimportant, mean that maybe it never really was quite as important as you thought it was at the time?

so there's no issue really

:-)