Why does he act like this? Guys... PLEASE HELP!?

Question

I used to mess around with an married man 2wice a few months ago but we DID NOT ever have s*x. Well he decided to stop talking to me because his wife was finding out. We met at the gym where we both still see each other there almost every weekend. He wont really talk to me and I text him but he never answers my texts or calls cuz his wife looks at the phone bill, yet when I see him at the gym he is always giving me flirty looks and smiles when he looks at me. He shows off in his corvette in front of me by making a u-turn and risking a wreck w/ his son in car, just to get my attention and then he followed me and my sister out of the gym this past weekend and sped up to us real fast for some reason, but we turned into a parking lot, so I dont know if he would have followed. He wont talk to me but acts this way... I just dont understand. Im NOT planning to mess around w/him again, all I am asking is if you think that he is gonna try and mess with me again possibly since we never had s*x?

Answer 1

Little boy gave you a very good answer.

Answer 2

Messing around with a married man is so very wrong on many levels. I am not judging you, just advising you that rarely if ever does any lasting good come from it and always someone gets hurt, if not you then someone else. In the situation you described, I think you have piqued this persons ego and more than likely he enjoys the perceived kudos he has of having someone in tow romantically/emotionally. The antics you described smack of immaturity and I think he is at 6s and 7s in exactly what to do. He wants the excitement of an illicit affair (not necessarily s*x) whilst at the same time both unwilling to commit and risk all and not wise enough to let go. You are in a no win situation and at best would be a temporary distraction should you go any further. Someone has to demonstrate some class here and bring this situation to an end and I feel it must be you. Given that he may scent a sexual encounter with you, I think he may fool around the edges retaining your interest as long as he can and see what the future may bring. Are you willing to be used is the question you have to answer. You will know what to do once you answer that but from his perspective, he won't let go so easily, why should he? If you offer any further encouragement, be prepared for an emotional roller coaster ride with you spat out at the end. Good luck!

Answer 3

if you found out that ur husband and another woman had something on, you would try make sure that all communication comes 2 an end.

I think he wouldn't mind talking 2 u(flirty looks) but the risk is too big I mean his wife is at stake here

Answer 4

The first answer is right on the mark. The man is playing games. You are probably not the first and most definitely won't be the last. Please just act like he is an anonymous customer at your gym. Ignore him