My bf and I have been together for 5 years and we have 2 children together. He refuses to move out and get us a place of our own. His mom is the most irresponsible 51 y/o woman. She works and makes good money, only helps pay bills when my bf throws a fit and tells her she'll have to move out (he wouldn't really do that and she knows it). I take care of EVERYTHING around the house. She doesn't even clean up after herself. Her room hasn't been cleaned since I last cleaned it in April. I have to get on my hands and knees everyday to scrub her bath powder out of the shower before I can bath my kids. She is inconsiderate and is very ruthless at times. If he doesn't give her bingo money when she goes broke the night before, she calls him everything but her son. No matter what she does to him or me ( she has never really said anything to my face but she and her daughter talk about me all the time) he always takes her side. He will not tell her she needs to clean up after herself and she doesn't take me seriously. When I have told him I will leave if it keeps getting worse, he says, it would be best for me and our kids.
I just don't understand. She even treated him like sh*t as a kid. He is constantly chasing after her when she is mad at him ( usually because he wont do SOMETHING for her). When he and I argue, he doesn't care how upset I am. If leaving was an option, I would have done so already. All of the ultilities are in my name and are topped out at about $4500. She can't live on her own because she will spend all her money on what she wants instead if what she needs.I am good to him and his beloved Mommy. She feels the need to get in the middle of our arguments and even start some for us by telling him outright lies.
WHY is he so adament on chasing his mothers love when she only gives it at her convienience? Why am I just chopped liver when I give my love freely?
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