Why does he always help me whenever I am down? what do i do? Is Ron trying to maniuplate me?

Question

i am 38 years old and Ron is 25. was separated with a daughter...

Oct06-I let a guy (28) borrow $400 cause he was an old druggie and foster child

Dec06-i found myself in a bad position with my mortgage and the other guy didn't pay me back so i went to my friend Ron for $1500 and he let me borrow it.

April07-Ron gave me a web design job to help me with money.

Jun07-i did not pay back Ron and told him i wanted to get back with my husband and try that. Ron said ok and offered the money as a gift but I did not accept. I told Ron I was dreaming about him. We met for lunch and we were in best buy and I mentioned wanting to buy a WII for my daughter

Jul07-Ron asked if I wanted to be his girl, I said no. could not happen. He then got upset about the WII. He said i was asking him to buy it. Well I wasn't. Then he found out about the $400 and got upset about that. He said I used him. He would not shutup. I had my husband threaten him.

Nov07-Ron told off the guy I gave $400 to, he said I needed it and asked him to repay me.

Dec07-Ron sends me a $50 amazon.com gift card.

Jan08-Ron sends me $400 on behalf or the other guy to pay me back. He said he feels strongly the other guy should of paid me back if I was struggling.

April08-My refridge went up and Ron gave me $800 to help me out with that.

August08-My sister asked me for $500 cause she has a kid and it made my bank account bounce so I asked for Ron to help me. He let me borrow $750.

Why does he always help me whenever I am down? what do I do?

Answer 1

This guy really likes you and obviously cares about you a lot, or else he wouldn't let you use him the way you are.

...and you had your husband threaten him after he loaned you $1500?!!??  And then after that he's giving you gifts AND more money?!?!?!?!?

Do something selfless and considerate for this generous and compassionate-sounding guy, cut him loose!  Or treat him better.

Answer 2

because he LIKES YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 3

You found a sugar-daddy. You seem to have no problem taking money from him with nothing in return. That makes you a gold-digger. Do you want someone to tell you it's OK? Not from me.

Answer 4

Sounds like a pretty good friend to me. How many people do you know that would be willing to care about your needs?

Say Thank You !  is my answer. Then thank God for the provisions.

Only you can decide if you can be manipulated or not. don't just be suspicious but know who you are and don't feel guilty about it.

Get this personalized book, I have mine, and learn how to trust yourself and others. Be wise in your decisions and just say "Thank you Ron ", I really appreciate your help and concern.

Unless you are thinking you are the one manipulating,  don't worry about his intentions, only your own.  Again just be wise, awake, and alert.  Not just suspicious.

Get the book with your name throughout the book just about you. The positive good things about you. You have to order it online at the site in the source line. You can only be responsible for your own intentions and not Ron's. A loan is a loan,  a gift is a gift. Be honest and be "Wise"  !

Answer 5

Pay him his money back !!!! YOU are the freeloading manipulator ... people like you make me sick !!!

Answer 6

Girl, he ain't manipulating u, ur manipulating him. You're leadin him on bigtime w/ the talk a/b dreams etc.  He either cares a/b u or ur good in bed. Either way, u r usin him big time. U want ur husband, don't talk to Ron anymore. Men r problem-solvers by nature; he wants to help u solve ur problems for some reason. Stop usin him and ask your hubby when u need somethin.

Answer 7

He is in love with you and you are walking all over him