Here's the thing: my boyfriend and I both have my space accounts. If you look at my profile it is all about him, me his 6 yr old daughter and our little bun in the oven. What can I say, I love them. However, if you get on his website, you would think he's still single. He doesn't mention me, he's still listed as being "divorced" and the picture on his profile is of him without a shirt. What I think the picture says is this, "look at me. Look at my s**y body. Want me? Send a message". We both agreed that we would delete the Ex's from our profiles which he has not done yet (and it's going on 5 months) I don't have ANY of my old guy friends on there and NONE of my Ex's are on my profile; yet he STILL talks to his Ex's, he agreed to put me on his profile to show everyone how in love he is with me (still waiting on that one) and everytime I get upset because some girl has put up a "love your s**y body, hope to see you soon" comment, he says that I'm "just acting crazy and he didn't do anything wrong and they are 'just friends'". Can ANYONE tell me WHY I shouldn't be insecure about this when I know darn F*CKING well that he would be ALL OVER MY @SS if he saw something like that on my profile??? Am I making an sense?
Another point here: just last night I got on to his profile (from my profile) and saw that he had added yet ANOTHER girl from Arkansas onto his friends list "just to see who she was". This girl also sent several racy comments to his profile. When I approached him about it he said it wasn't any of my business and that she is an "old" friend. What's funny is that he's only ever been to Florida as far as the US goes and he's already told me he doesn't know ANYONE in Arkansas. Not only that but her state ID says "Arkansas...soon to be Ohio". Am I making too much out of this or do you think he's moving on and just hasn't told me yet???
If you're a guy and your out to defend my man...please don't answer. I want honest feedback and insight. My heart is breaking and this is wreaking havoc on our realtionship and I don't want that! I'm 33 and pregnant with his second child. Somehow I need him to see that he is placing double standards on me and wrecking ME apart! If this keeps up, I'm afraid of what it will do to the baby...let alone my state of mind.
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