I am 20 and he's 21. My guy friend and I are very close. He treats me really well, has told me he loves me, calls me about everyday. Tells me he misses me etc and that I mean the world to him. He even gets angry when I have a boyfriend.
Every time I tell him how I feel and that I want a relationship, he uses the d*mn excuse that we would argue too much. It's like he continues to set me up for this emotional trap. He gets really close to me, leads me on and when i suggest a relationship he backs away. I don't think any guy would call his female "friend" everyday and talk to her for hrs. on end. So I know I am not reading too much into this. I would also like to add that him and I have never had s*x with each other, so it's not a sexual thing.
I am just frustrated with him giving me the green light and make me think that I have a chance and then bam! He uses the same excuse. What should I do and what kind of game is he playing.
I am just frustrated. Let me give u an exp. of how close we are. When he was entering the academy and seeing if he passed his test, he was like you are going to be the 1st person who knows anything before anyone else. He called me before he called his mom or anyone else.
What's the deal? Should I just back off?
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