Why does he do this-help?

Question

my boyfriend has ditched me again as i am pregnant.i refused to terminate, and now he has run off back home.he is 28 and lives with parents.the more i call him he tells me to go away,when i backed off-he seemed to be coming around,then i started contact he ran off again. he has always had up and down moods-i i really miss him.how do i get him back??

Answer 1

He just likes the challenge of chasing you and playing games. He'll keep doing it (don't think you can change him, because it won't work). Do yourself and your unborn baby a favor- cut off all ties with him. You deserve to be happy and don't need this kind of c**p!

Answer 2

Please go get la**!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by another man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and stalk him a while give this dude a break before we see you on the news.

Answer 3

and here it is again, dang it!

Answer 4

Martha Martha

He's at my house, He's staying here :)

Answer 5

You need to seek counseling to deal with your own issues.  Why would you want this guy back.  Have your baby and sue the **** for child support.

Answer 6

you dont get hime back . seriously hun you need to let him go now because think about how it will be later in life when you are depending on him to help take care of your child and he leaves again . there is no way this little boy is really going to be worth anything if he is leaving you now when you are pregnant. let him go and make sure you get his ace to pay child support.  

Answer 7

He is like a bad time.Comes when not wanted.

Answer 8

yeah....you want him back.

Can't wait to see what kid of father he'll be. Especially since he puts so much effort into your relationship huh?

Answer 9

If you have a daughter. What would you tell your daughter to do if her b/f was treating her like that? As a parent to sons and daughters, I have to lead by example. And So should you.

Answer 10

are you for real??????????

LET THE LOSER GO, AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE, AND FIND SOMEONE MORE SUITABLE TO BE A FATHER AND PARTNER..than this b*****d.

YOU seem to be creating your own problems! sorry but its the truth and you need to be told!

"ditched you again???"

you and your kid will be better off and please for the sake of the kid, dont have any more until you are more stable in your life!

Answer 11

Maybe he ran because you like to ask the same question 6 times.  If you treat your relationship like you do this message board, I'd be 6 states away by now if I was him.

Answer 12

Have a healthy pregnancy and take care of yourself.

Ignore his childishness.

Ignore him and his parents unless they come to you.

At this point...he is a sperm donor. Make sure you file for child support from him. Do you have his social security number?

If he wants to GROW UP and be part of his child's life let him... if he does not...then just cash the checks to feed your baby and learn a lesson.

Answer 13

Didn't you ask this just a little while ago?

ANSWER:  SAME AS BEFORE:  LET HIM GO!!

Answer 14

You WANT a guy who screwed you then DUMPED you because YOU got pregnat with HIS KID?

You WANT a guy who is 28 and lives with his "mommy and daddy" everytime he wants to avoid adult responsibilities?

Not to mention this is not the FIRST time he has ditched you hon.

YOU WANT a guy who wants you tio murder your unborn  child?

Why?is THIS guy the BEST you can do?

If he found you attractive enough to knock you up,then other guys will find you attractive also.

Time to grow up here and be an adult hon because YOU ahve a baby on the way.

He does NOT love you, he USES you for s*x.

Now tell him he WILL be paying child support OR going to jail HIS CHOICE TOTALLY! He had a part in making the baby so he will take part in in the baby's financial needs.

Next,tell him it is OVER between the 2 of you(he may want to move in with you to keep from paying child support,but do not fall for it).

Then YOU move in with your parents ,tell them you made a mistake,and get an education and DO something so you can support your kid, then get into church so you can find a decent man.The United Pentecostal churches are great.