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Why does he keep wanting to wrestle me?- I am a girl? *ADOLESCENT*?

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okkkay well theres this guy who's 21 and he's been on the wrestling team all throughout high school and hes my best friends brother friend and everytime i go to my friends house, hes there and hes all like "hey wanna wrestle?" and im like "umm no cuz last time you almost killed me"

im a female so why does he keep picking on me? does he not know that most girls are fragile and not as physically strong as guys??? what does this mean? he has guy friends so why doesnt he ask them? is this a disorder?

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  1. Sound like hes wrestling with you because this is his way of flirting with you without making it obvious to you. does he have sisters that he also wrestles with? My bf always wrestled with me and his sisters but he wasnt on the wrestling team, he just enjoyed using his strength to show us that hes bigger and stronger and laughs at it. They all play around wrestling each other. As long as hes not hurting you and stops when you say that it hurts hes not bullying you.

    As for the fragile women thing, I was wrestling manager in HS for 4 years, girls and boys wrestle each other in HS as long as they are the same weight. I taught all my wrestlers the moves and also practiced with them. Im 5'7 123lbs. He may not see you as a girl just someone to wrestle with, if he doesnt like you then he wants to wrestle with you like my bf does with his siters. You should ask him if he likes you first of all to get that out of the way. Sometime people that you know your whole life, acting as best friends, bro & sis etc do turning out hooking up later. For example, i was best friends with this guy(Berto) for well over 5 years. one day calling my best friends house his brother told me "Berto's secretly had a crush on me but never said anything to you and he didnt want you to feel weird because you are so close, dont tell him that ive told you". So you really never know, thats why i say you should ask him just in case. Then tell him that you really dont want to wrestle with him because you simply dont like it.


  2. uhh it means he wants to touch you

    he probably has a little crush on you

    this is called being playful and flirty

  3. he <3s you (lol)

  4. sounds like a bully in a way he knows he can beat u

  5. lol. He just wants to touch you. He likes you.

  6. because he knows he could kick you ***

  7. He likes you.

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  8. are you serious? he is flirting with you, he wants to be on top of you and then roll around...dont do it

  9. he always asks you to wrestle because he likes you it's obvious

  10. ok remember when in kindergarten u would pick on the boy u liked? like kicked him and push him ? well uhm boys never grow out of that stage lol..

  11. He is flirting wid you or at least trying to

  12. he has a crush on you, he probably thinks hes being flirty and he'll get to hang with you and become friends.....thats a little creepy though depending on how old you are..bc he's 21..............

  13. 3 choices:

    1) he liiiiiikkkessss uuuu (lol)

    2) hes jus playing around

    3) hes a BULLY >:( haha lol

  14. duh..maybe he likes u..or maybe its code for..hey u wanna get busy ??..hes 21..how old are u..maybe hes a child molestor..who knows?

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