Why does he still keep hurting me?

Question

i called him a stalker because he was driveing past my house all the time,i emailed him to stop driving past because it hurt me i feel he is watching me all the time and its freaken meout.But then i find out he is pass because he is working nearby .I emailed him to say how sincerely sorry i was for calling him a stalker.i've tried to get in touch with him to say sorry but he won't talk it really hurts i really like him.but i think in my heart he is playing mind games he no how i feel but does not make any attempt to contact me he is a scorpio male please help its driving me insane all he does is drive past my house my work stareing at me does not even smile and that make me feel so guilty about every thing.

Answer 1

It's called a restraining order.  He is stalking you and you can make it stop.

Answer 2

You should understand people before calling them a stalker, because it is easy to hurt someone's feelings, but you can't erase the word from their heart even by saying a sorry. Becareful of your steps. What's wrong in staring and passing by, maybe he had feelings for you but you could ignore him if you don't like it. You can't correct people for their mistakes just because you were hurted. Change your way of going out when he stares. That's what I do for a guy at school who is really a stalker. Tell him sorry and also your feelings about it.

Answer 3

without even reading your entire question, i can answer:

because you keep letting him.

Answer 4

The last thing I would do if I were being "stalked" by anyone is to contact them!

It appears that you want him but are sending negative signals instead of positive. If a man liked me but called me a stalker for driving by his home (which turns out to be on my way to work), I doubt I would smile or wave. If you like him, send him pleasant emails not ones that appear to be hostile and certainly not ones making such accusations as being a stalker. You're going about this the wrong way.

Answer 5

Obviously he doesn't care how you feel.  I think it's best if you stop contacting him and stay away from him.  Maybe later he might contact you who knows?  Maybe he is no longer interested in you, sorry but that's how I see it.