Why does hurting have to be synonymous with loving?

Question

or, is it?

Answer 1

not in my book.  i use lots of ky jelly.

Answer 2

thanks papaw now i got song stuck in head

Answer 3

when you love someone, you become vulnerable and open. you are pretty much giving that person the power to hurt you.

Answer 4

you wanna be spanked and love at the same time... hey there Delilah!

Answer 5

same thing as: corny = rice-a-roni

Answer 6

Because love is one of the strongest emotions we have , it gives us estatic emotional highs, and heart-rendering lows

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffynuKji3...

http://users.cis.net/sammy/lovehurt.htm

Love Hurts

( Everly Brothers )

Love hurts, love scars, love wounds and mars

Any heart not tough nor strong enough

To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain,

Love is like a cloud, holds a lot of rain .....

Love hurts ......

Oooh ...... love hurts.

I'm young, I know, but even so

I know a thing or two, I've learned from you

I've really learned a lot, really learned a lot

Love is like a stove, burns you when it's hot

Love hurts, love hurts

Some fools rave on happiness, blissfullness, togetherness

Some fools fool themselves I guess

But they're not fooling me ......

I know it isn't true, know it isn't true

Love is just a lie, made to make you blue

Love hurts ......

Oooh ...... love hurts.

Oooh ...... love hurts.

Oooh ...... love hurts.

Oooh ...... love hurts.

Answer 7

there's a song that goes - you only hurt the one you love; the one you shouldn't hurt at all...

and then there's the movie line - love means never to say you're sorry.

now i'm confused!

Answer 8

Hurting doesn't have to be synonymous with loving.  One can hurt an enemy, too and you don't love your enemy contrary to what the bible says about loving an enemy.  However, it is most often that you hurt the one you love for several reasons.  One is you take for granted your relationship and the person you love, sometimes unaware that you have done so.  Another could be physical or emotional abuse and emotional insecurity.  And another reason could be psychological; a feeling of inadequacy or incompetence to perform.  

Answer 9

I don't think it is.