Why does it feel so good (adults only)?

Question

i will honestly admit i have never been big on masturbation.. it just never really did it for me... but my man has been gone for 12 days and tonight was the first night he didnt call me to say goodnight... i wasnt angry or pissed at him... its a 6 hour time difference and im sure he had a long day, as today is a big holiday in italy... i am more upset and worried cause if something happened to him, id be the last to know.. anyway, thinking about him and his coming home on sunday and readin some previous answers, i dunno, i started really "wanting" him, so, i masturbated.. and now, i feel relaxed, not upset he didnt call and ok.... but i really dont understand it... why do i feel better about something like that just because i pleasured myself?

Answer 1

Sexual climax releases a lot of energy...so afterward it's common to feel relaxed and satisfied. You weren't stressed about the lack of contact in the first place, so masturbating (and probably thinking of him) gave you inner comfort and inner/outer sexual satisfaction.

Some people m********e when they are stressed, to help relax...or when they are having trouble falling a sleep.

The feeling you had is quite 'normal' actually.

Answer 2

negito,

babies been known to do it in the womb?

Like babies are already thinking of s*x.''

get real.

anyway, it lasts only a season.  The real deal is better, and we should seek the best.

Answer 3

Pleasure (such as sexual pleasure) and orgasms release endorphins into your body (the feel good chemical) They have a way of releaving stress, body aches, **menstral cramps** nervousness and much more.

s*x, and masterbation are natures way of releaving and calming us. It's like natures crack.

Answer 4

Endorphins. When your body is stimulated, it releases the "feel good" stuff, called endorphins that go to work when you exercise, have s*x or m********e.

Answer 5

That you pleasure.....dont scarry to m********e.Do it as long as you need.It is okay for your healt as well.

Enjoy  

Answer 6

Try doing it everyday, it's a wonderful release. :)  

Answer 7

Like you said, You are relaxed now. People who suffer tension headaches, due to a lack of s*x, have found relief by masturbation as well. You are not upset that he did not call because you are understanding of his situation and also, you trust him to be faithful. Therefore, there is no reason to be upset. As for the urge to m********e, it is natural and normal to pleasure yourself if your body request it.  

Answer 8

It eases tension.

Answer 9

That is exactly what masturbation is for.

Relieving stress and taking your mind off of things that you can't control.

You needed your man and he couldn't be there.

So you took things into your own hands. :)

Congratulations!

It also helps you to sleep better.

I only wish that society didn't place such a stigma on it.

It's so natural.  Babies have been known to do it in the womb.

Answer 10

It causes a feeling of relaxation.  I sometimes do it when I can't sleep.  

Answer 11

Ask your husband when he gets home, I am sure he has done a lot of it since you've been apart. Maybe he can explain it!

Answer 12

s*x releases stress and tention.  Its suposed to relax you.  I think it releases endorfhins too that makes you feel relaxed.  Its also good to please your self without anyone else around, just you.