Why does it have to be like this??

Question

ok so in my opion, i would say that im a big girl, not like a gross disgusting big girl like i still think i look hot and stuff, but whenver guys flirt with me and then i go for it, there like, actually sorry i dont really like u, and then i hear from other people that its because of my wieght, i mean...i really do have a great personalitly i like to be friends with everyone but after those things happen i get really selp conciouse and stuff, any1 have any tipss!!

thnx<3

Answer 1

Don&#039;t give up! There&#039;s someone out there for you. Some guys like big girls.

Answer 2

You&#039;re meeting a*****e guys.

But listen, I hate preaching, but being overweight is not healthy, and it&#039;s just cultural that fat is unattractive. Can you honestly say you are happy with yourself at the weight you&#039;re at? If you really are, stay there. If not, get healthy. Make yourself an honest to goodness promise that you will change. Watch your confidence boost, and that will make you easier to talk to and relationships easier to find.

Answer 3

you know what as long as you know your pretty and s**y and you have self confidence you will find someone who will love that and that&#039;s the kind of guy you should be with!

Answer 4

First of all, I am assuming you are in your teens, am I right? Guys that age are very immature and overly concerned about issues, such as weight. I know of many beautifully thick women who are happily married or dating fanatics now that couldn&#039;t get a date in high school.  I know that when you exhume confidence people are drawn to that! Get involved in activities that are of interest to you and spend time with family and friends. Also, don&#039;t forget that PLENTY of &quot;skinny&quot; girls are rejected, too! (ex: Jessica Simpson has been &quot;dumped&quot; so many times!) You sound like you have a lot of friends, and a great personality, guys will start to take notice..how could they not!  : )  Hold your head high and good luck!

Answer 5

it comes down to being a selection process to hopefully increase a species ability to survive. it&#039;s all part of evolution. if you really do have good genes you will someday find a mate.

Answer 6

Keep your chin up, your a spunk.

Try loosing some weight - stop junk food;  have fruit and nuts for snacks;  eat wholemeal breads and cereals.  Don&#039;t eat packaged foods - just meals made with vegetables, meats, fish, chicken and grains.  Drink loads of water.

Let the guy make the first move/do the asking out.