Why does it hurt so bad?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for quite awhile and we have recently decided to try and have s*x. The first time we tried, I had to tell him to stop because of the excruciating pain! It hurt so badly, i wanted to shout! It was the worst pain I've ever felt! A few weeks later, we decided to try it for a second time and again i had to tell him to stop because of the pain. And a few days ago, we decided to try again. What do you think happened? You guessed it!... I had to tell him to stop because of the pain! Are we doing something wrong? Why does it hurt so badly? His p***s quite big and thick but is he too big or too thick? Please help! Anything will help! Any advice?

Answer 1

s*x will hurt the first time...your stretching it out...it will hurt...my adivce is just deal with the pain...if not you're gonna keep trying and stopping and it will just keep hurting.

Answer 2

take it up the poopshoot!!!!!

Answer 3

Um, start out slow. I'm sure you aren't exactly used to something so large, so you have to work your way up to that length and size.

Answer 4

His p***s is not too big! Womens bodies are designed to deliver babies. No p***s is that big!!

It's very normal to feel pain the first time you have s*x. Try to relax (its hard I know). If you are too nervous and scared you will tense up, your pelvic muscles will tense and this will make it more difficult and more painful for you. Have him give you a massage and have lots of foreplay. This will help relax you, get you more in the mood and make your v****a more ready for s*x. Also you could try using lubricant too.

Answer 5

does it hurt when he is all the way in like ,like do you feel something inside like he is touch something up inside you it might be a sis you might want to see your doctor if that the case if not just keep trying it be better later

Answer 6

Pain during the first intercourse is quite normal but usually subsides gradually in consequent s*x.

There are few inportant points need to be kept in mind to reduce pain...I guess u might be aware but still wold like to elaborate on them

1. when u see that the p***s is too big and is going to hurt u...u become psychologically nervous and ur pelvic muscles and perivaginal muscles contract and be prepared not to let this p***s more inside...so u need to be mentally prepared that its not going to hurt and be mentally totally relaxed.

2. Foreplay plays a very inportant role in s*x. It gradually lubricates ur v****a and prepares for s*x...so u should spend little more time with ur boyfriend and get properly excited before penetration.

3. If v****a is not properly lubricated then recommanded external lubricants can be applied.

4. penetration should be slow and gentle and gradual...if u feel pain u can immediately stop...again indulge into a foreplay and try again..vice a versa....

Answer 7

buy some lube and put it on his p***s, that should help it move in and out easier