Why does it seem men are only nice when they need something from us ?

Question

then after we do all we cant o help them then they cuss us and treat us horrible till next time they need us

Answer 1

I DONT know but it maybe could explain why some woman are lesbians

Answer 2

you obviously hang out with the wrong men, why do you let then do this? i practically have a male slave that would/will do anything for me, and ask nothing in return. clean, garden, errands, cook, anything. granted i think its pretty weird, but who would say no?  

Answer 3

i do not think so

Answer 4

women do the exact same thing  

Answer 5

i only like showing my girlfriend attention when we are getting down and dirty,other than that i like her to keep her distance.

Answer 6

not all guys are like that, come on you must need a new boyfriend

Answer 7

many men are like that,it only shows they are selfish,only bothered abt themselves and their needs

Answer 8

Because they are GUYS.

Answer 9

you are meeting the wrong sorts of men then. stop giving them what they want so quickly and make them respect you first

Answer 10

Please don't bad-mouth all men. I'm sorry some jerk hurt you, but it's offensive.

Answer 11

Starting with a minor correction-- "some men"..OK?  There are far more good´uns than bad´uns, so cheer up - you may have had some disappointments, but if all were good´uns, you would not know that they are. By the way are you one of the good´uns?  Remember - we tend to get back that which we give.