Why does it sometimes feel like..?

Question

Why does it sometimes feel like you try so hard to go well in something and nothing ever pays off?

Answer 1

this is the scenario of my life, it happens with me all the time.

i work so hard to get things moving soft and easy and in return i get nothing but negative thoughts and nothing in return.

but that's life, negative and positive, happy and sad moments....

just move with the flow and be happy and positive

Answer 2

Just keep on trying one day all will fall into place never give up once there is life there is hope nothing  good in life comes  too easy

Answer 3

You just need to keep the faith, hold on to your smile and raise your head up high; the best way to face defeats is a high chin and a smile, keep the faith and u will see, if they come to you, u go to them; and they will have to reward you the way you deserve it =)

Answer 4

because your life sucks

Answer 5

Sometimes it does feel that way.  I have those rough patches sometimes but they eventually pass.  Just hang in there - eventually your hard work will pay off in some area, even if it's not exactly what you planned.

Answer 6

not always, i try to choose very well what I like or what I do so that i could   accept better the results, but this should never stop us, we should go on and keep trying still we realize our targets

Answer 7

it feels like that but it does you just have to keep at it and stay motivated.My mom was a hs drop out because she had us really young and she went back recently for her G.E.D.It was hard for her especially being 43 and forgetting basically everything but she keptt at it and earned her G.E.D diploma.Just stay motivated it'll pay off.

Answer 8

Remember these old adages.....proper planning prevents poor performance & when at first you don't succeed try , try again !

The thing to always remember is that while the world always acknowledges the winner , what is more important to our growth as individuals is to be part of the game ....not whether we win or lose.

Answer 9

I know how you feel, but i've learned that everything i do makes a difference. Even if it dont pan out the way you want it too. So basically just be positive about it, eventually things will get better. I've had it rough so i've just made the best out of everything that has happened to me, besides you can't change the past and can always look towards the future. Do what makes you happy and whatever happens don't like the bad times, let you down. We've only got one life, so dont regret and live life to the fullest :)

Answer 10

cause if it was easy then everybody'd be doing it

Answer 11

Just do your best depending on the situation and don't expect for appreciation...

Answer 12

just to make u feel better........you are not out there alone.....there are others who feel the same.  

Answer 13

Because thats life, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes you will put all you effort into something and no matter how much you want it to it doesn't work out. But a positive attitude always helps. Things need to get worse before they get better.

Answer 14

u have to keep trying ...

Answer 15

Hmm.. My friend, have you ever tried to asses where did it go wrong? Try to find whether you made any mistake? Try some thing different or try try again till you perfect the art of achieving you target.

Remember, the ones who succeed in life are ordinary people like you and me... Infact there are no short cuts in life... you can achieve you goals by trying extra hard and above all by  remaining optimistic and motivated.

Answer 16

It will pay-off eventually, trust me on this one. It may seem to you right now that your goal is so far away, but you will get the credit you deserve because perseverence pays off.

Answer 17

eventually in the long run it will pay off, it takes time