Why does it take so long to recover from mistakes?

Question

I'm a mommy of three and two aren't with me right now. Soon they will be. How do I make the hurt go away for them?

Answer 1

Tell them your always with them, in they're hearts. Let them know that your only a phone call away. If they are big enough, have them send pictures when they do something fun or achieved something exciting. U should send them pictures too. The worst thing u could do is to be sad when u are spending time with them. Make sure they see a smile on your face and don't let them see u cry.

Answer 2

can you be a bit more specific?

Answer 3

I'll make my answer as brief as your question.  Be a better person.  Whatever you did that got them taken from you???..............don't do that again.

Answer 4

It will take time, but remember you are their mum and they love you no matter what. Lots of kisses, lots of hugs, lots of love. But don't forget, they still have to have rules and consistency, and only you can provide those, so don't spoil them just alwyas let them know you love them. It will be all right.

Answer 5

A lot of that depends on what the hurt was, how it was inflicted and why they were without you and are returning.  A few more details and ages might be better helpful.

Answer 6

you can't. They have to let it go away on they're own. sorry.