Why does it work this way?

Question

Ok, well, for some reason, I have noticed this, at least in high school.

If an overweight guy dates a skinny/athletic girl, it's socially acceptable. It's fine.

But if an overweight girl, dates a muscular, or skinny guy, it's completely wrong.

I ask this because I was thinking about dating a girl, maybe a LITTLE fat, not much on her. She could easily do it, but all of my friends think I'm CRAZY, and they can't believe I would date a "Fat B**ch."

Why is it like this?

Answer 1

Who cares what they have to say? If you are attracted to this girl, good. If you also love her personality, even better. Don't let them dictate your life. They have their tastes, you have yours.

My boyfriend is black and extremely skinny. I'm a white, average-sized girl. People stare at us, baffled, and do I care? No.

People just raised them to be ignorant like that. And do not let anyone talk bad about your girl.