Why does life suck?

Question

why is there aways pain?

why am I hurt so much?

does love even exist?

tell me your opinion.

Answer 1

Because as you grow older it sucks the youth from you . An today their is no respect for the elders .

Answer 2

Pain lasts, kid. It's how you know you're alive. Sometimes I think this growing up thing is just pain management.

Answer 3

thank for the good words. it will come, when u don't search for it.. love exist

Answer 4

There isn't always pain. Love exists. Bad things must happen before you appreciate the good.

Answer 5

I guess becuase we need to struggle and suffer a little bit in order to grow. (this is what someone told me a few days ago because I was upset about something) oddly enough it made me feel better.

Answer 6

Maybe you just plain suck don't blame it all on life.(so selfish)

Answer 7

heres a good quote that helps me - " sunny days wouldnt be special if it wasnt for rain, joy wouldnt feel so good, if it wasnt for pain..."

its actually quote from 50 Cent in one of his songs.

Answer 8

Because you touch yourself at night

Answer 9

life doesn't suck, maybe how you live it sucks, but life doesnt suck. pain will be there becaase this isn't heaven, it's quite far from it. and as long as there are people dying and crying, there is going to be pain. and love exists in many forms and in many places, you just have to find it and spread it.

live life to the fullest and live life good.

Answer 10

b/c im not in ur life....

i kno its sad.

but it will be ok.

Answer 11

i agree.....i always feel the same way... like there is no way out... but i promise IT GETS BETTER!!

=] be strong

Answer 12

I'm with you.  Life is trash, and everything is an obstacle that's there to just ruin it even more for you.

Answer 13

u gotta get out of ur belly button. ive been diving into mine for years, it can get very dark in there with only urself to listen to, u need to stop adn get ur but back out into the world. the best way ive found to do it is to involve urself in other peoples lives, preferrably in some kind of charitable work, like volunteering for a charity or church. this sounds stupid, adn admittedly sometimes feels stupid, but working for others and even better with others working for others seems to open up ur soul in ways that years of picking out belly button lint nvr does. im making lite of a serious situation , but in a serious way, its true , u need to not really pick urself up, i hate all that self affirmation crud, it always made me feel like a jerk telling myself what a great person i am, what u need to do is stop thinkg about ur self at all, by thining about other stuff, like how can i help this person, these people, this community. and oh yeah, dont go into it expecting thanks, thats a deal killer, if u r in it just to have people tell u how great u r, ur missing the whole point, u r back to worrying aobut urself. u r doing the thing for itself not for the kind thots of others., if u try for praise, u will be sooner or later bitterly disappointed, adn then u r back to square one.

oh yeah, dont take what happens in the world pesonally, like war, famine, fires plagues, etc, unless u r personnally responsible for em, and i mean u and u alone. it would probably help if u started hangin aorund people wioth a positive attitude, hanging around with people who r negative makes it way too easy to backslide, its addictive, like alchohol or gambling. i'm not saying go hang out with a bunch of koombayah singing bobbleheads, but a church of ur choice mite not bge a bad idea, there r lots of em out there, try on like 10 or so, so if there is one u like. even if its just for the fellowship.

if u go out insisting on love, most of the people u find will be happy to give u a surface love, one which is as fickle as it is easily given, u have to earn love by being lovable, which does not include telling the people u just met how much the world sux, of how badly u have been treated, very few people have enuf patience to sit thru more than a couple of minutes of that. so again, meet people, ask then about themselves, dont mention urself or ur probs at all for the first couple of meetings, it will be hard, i know.  but it gets easier the more u practice it, and the less u talk about urself, the more u will learn about others, adn the more they will appreciate u for ur magical way of listening.

luck

Answer 14

You have the same chances and choices at the rest of humanity. Toughen up and choose a good life for yourself(stop whining). Or...be a miserable whiner. Keep the whining to yourself please.

BTW-Be sure to read the 'answer' above:)

Answer 15

Life doesn't suck if you keep a positive outlook on life

There isn't always pain if you seek out the good and humorous side of situations.  Every situation has some good and some humor to it.

You are hurt so much because you choose to be hurt.  You sound as though you are depressed.  Look for the good in life.

Love exists all around you. Just look for the love in everything that happens around you.

Go purchase a copy of "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff, and It's All Small Stuff" by Richard Carlson, PH.D.

Life, basically, is very simple.  Try to keep from complicating things by imagining what isn't there.

Very best to you

Answer 16

Find a GOOD purpose to live for and all of those feelings will go away.

Your questions reveal a lack of self-worth.  Eliminate that and paths towards enlightenment will open up.

It will be hard at first.  Nothing worthwhile is ever easy but if you persevere then life will show you its rewards.

Answer 17

i know what your feeling, when my best friend was hit and killed by a drunk driver i seriously thought life just hated me because it didn't just take my best friend, it took some one i really cared about, some one i really liked.

but i learned when life throws you a curve ball, you cant strike out, you just have to keep playing the game, you have to remember you have team mates who love you. and that love, once you find it, will make the game of life less hard

hope your pain goes away and you feel happy soon (-:

Answer 18

Life doesn't suck Your attitude sucks. Believe in yourself . If you believe in yourself , you will have more self confidence ,thus believing in your own well being . Once you reach this plateau you will find that life doesn't suck , but that life can be a joyful event  even though you might have it all or nothing. Things do not make your life but your attitude is what  gives your  life a wonderful meaning. Ask for nothing and you will get it all, but ask for it all and you will get nothing., because all is never attainable. Your life is what you make of it and if you think it sucks, then for you your life will suck, and no one can convince you differently. Control your mind and don't let your mind control you. Your life will always be  what you think it is , nothing more and nothing less.!

Answer 19

make the right choices!

could be the type of enviorment that you are in!

Answer 20

this is your openion . what matter is your attitude towards life.if you take life in a positive way and try to ignore negativity then you will have all pleasure.

Answer 21

Because you haven't yet learnt to not be hurt. As ridicuolus and impossible as it sounds, you need to stop feeling bad.

Love exists, I reckon. It's not some mystical thing that floats around or anything; it's just a state of mind people can be in.

Answer 22

Aww, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I know that a lot of people feel the same way as you, even some of my friends. Life doesn't "suck", it's just hard. There are ups and downs and a lot of bumps in the road. I'm not going to say things will get better on their own, because usually you have to make some changes to make a change. Love does exist, trust me. Even if it seems like it's impossible and might not ever happen, it will. You just have to stay positive. This might sound stupid, but when you wake up in the morning just say positive things like "Oh, it's so sunny out" or "It's going to be a great day". I've heard that this actually helps make your day better. If you're not happy with your life, you can change it. You have the power to do that. Start with little changes. If you're self conscious about yourself, change the things that make you self conscious. It will make you feel a whole lot better.

I'd really like to talk to you and be a friend. if you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to email me. If you don't want to, that's totally fine. Just letting you know that anything you tell me is confidential and I wouldn't tell anyone.

I hope things get better for you. No one deserves to feel this way.