Why does my Husband.............?

Question

Want me to dress more "sporty"? We have been married for only 5 months( been together 41/2 Years). I usually dress very classy, Conservative, Heels, Skirts, & I also Like to wear jeans and a T-shirt. But Lately he has been asking me to wear Tennis Shoes, workout clothes, those little running jackets! What's the deal? Does he just want a change?He is not asking me to workout, run, or exercise, He just wants me to look like I do! LOL - If it matters we have 2 small children.:)

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Answer 1

well jogging suits fit kind of snug may be he wants to see your curves more

Answer 2

Well, it could be a couple of things. Maybe he really like the way you look in that type of apparel. Maybe he is wanting you to dress down because you are too hot in your usual wear. Either way, he probably doesn't mean any harm. Oh, it could also be that you are out dressing him (LOL). At least he is open enough with you to tell you what he wants. If you prefer not to dress this way, just do it occasionally. Try asking him why he wants you to dress this way. Sound like he is a pretty easy going guy. So, he wont mind giving you an honest answer.

Answer 3

maybe he thinks you look cute like that...

Answer 4

Hum? Not really knowing you the only thing that comes to mind is now that you are married he is feeling more insecure about men looking at you. I don't know why they get that way but they do. He may feel also cause of that you don't need to dress s**y any more you are married. Lols Just keep being your self and if he keeps it up ask him whats up with that and see what he says.

Answer 5

Maybe he thinks they are hot!

Answer 6

I know when my husband has made the suggestion that I “dress down”, it’s because he thinks it is easier for me. He thinks that I dress up for just him. Since we have a three year old and one year old,  he thinks it is more comfortable and easier to manage the boys. Plus he says that I look the “hottest” when I am just me! But as any mom knows it’s nice to dress up and feel like a person every now and again! So maybe your husband doesn’t want you to feel like you have to impress him. Try not to read too much into it.

Answer 7

I have read that some men if not many men do not like women dressed to the nines, for whatever reason,

I have also read thatn men who ask for different things in bed or begin talking about topics they have never shown an interest in befoderre are signs that they are cheating. Now i understand that is far fetched, given that is all the info you provided... i am just sharing what popped into my head

Answer 8

if it doesn't hurt, why not indulge him?  Maybe you'll end up getting more 'special nights' together...or maybe even some 'afternoon delight'.

BTW, are you height/weight proportional?  What do you look like in the sporty clothes?  There are some fantastic looking warmup suits and leotards.  Keep it interesting, mix it up...don't just go for the baggy ddufflebag look...maybe go for a nice tennis outfit without underwear...LOL

don't just do the sporty thing either...try to get his attention with some other 'looks' ... see the spice girls for ideas...LOL

Answer 9

I have asked my wife to do the same. I just think she looks really cute in them.

Answer 10

both partners have a responsibility to be attractive to the other one

relationships are about effort

if you look like a house frump all the time, then it is no wonder if men lose interest

it sounds like he is not asking for much

Answer 11

Try to keep him satisfied.  This may even spice up the marriage.

Answer 12

Yeah he's probably just into that look right now. Some women can really pull off the sporty look. Just do it for him when you want, and he'll like it!

Answer 13

Probably means nothing,,,probably wants you to be more "normal dressing" than "classy". I made my wife go buy some bright colored dresses,