Why does my b/f who lives with me want to have control?

Question

Okay! my b/f has been living with me for 2yrs. now he makes more money than me he helps with half the bills and rent and then i let his son come live there and he stayed in the extra room which was my daughters room well his son left and left a few things like tv and some clothes but not much but my daughter put some things in there but the door has a lock and when i told him that i needed the key he asked me why i needed to go in there and i told him why so then he later asked me if i was using it as a storage or what he wanted to know cause he said he wanted to put something in there but he wouldn't tell me what he said just tell him yes or no i said what are you gonna put in there he wouldn't tell me but he got mad like and i said well let me ask you a question what is your son gonna do with his stuff he left and he said that he didn't know there was anything in there but he knew cause he has been in there a few times after his son moved back to his home town but before he told me all this he had said that his son had overdrawed at the bank and he might have to come back for a few weeks to get caught up but he told me that once his son left before that he wasn't gonna be running back and forth so all of a sudden why is he acting like this like?

Answer 1

seems to be something in there he has hidden probably and doesnt want you to know about.

ps I was moved by your story on http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...

Answer 2

If he wants to put something in your spare room but wont tell you what the it is something he knows you wont be happy with. Just tell him no.

If he wants control and your not happy with it then tell him. If he wont change you can make a decision either put up with it or get rid.

Keep things simple

Cheers