Why does my bf treat me nice one week, the next week not so nice?

Question

Last week he was all over me, calling me everyday telling me he loved me. This week hardly a phone call.

Is he cheating? I just started dating him.

Answer 1

He is acting like a little jack in the box, bouncing all over the place.

Seems like too much trouble if you ask me.

Answer 2

Maybe he's bipolar, just like they said about Britney.

Seriously, you're the only one that can tell what is the reason , if there was any reason at all.

Sometimes, people change without any reason.

Maybe he starts to listen to his goofy friends advice, you know to be a little distant a little loving.

Give him another week. Ask him about it. Then leave him if he's acting like nothing is wrong. I'm a guy and i act like nothing is wrong all the time, though my gf has fed up.

Answer 3

I am unfamiliar with your boyfriend and lack clairvoyance and thus can only speculate.  I cannot determine, with any degree of scientific rigour, if your boyfriend is cheating.

Answer 4

Hello Hi

Seems like your boy doesn't know what he wants.

And at the very least - as the first fella said, the first week he was probably horny :]

And remember, dont worry, dont ever be afraid, because there are many more available.

Answer 5

The week he treats you nice, is he horny?

Answer 6

must have a bit of a attitude problem or for him the spark died. first he doesn't like to cuddle now he is being a jerk hummmmmmm sounds like a change is happening to me.

Answer 7

Maybe he might be. Or maybe he is bipolar.

Answer 8

He sounds psycho-and why are you calling him a bf if you just started dating him? And you're already worrying about him cheating on you? And he's already telling you he loves you? I would run not walk away from this guy. You sound very insecure yourself.

Answer 9

no is that you can not be on top of guy all time. guys do not like that. he will call. dont worry

Answer 10

He is either messed up in the head, or he is messing with your head.  Ask him.  You have a right to know.

Maybe he was really busy.  I hate to stereotype but some men have "tunnel vision" and when they are involved in one thing, all other thought leave their heads.  If this is the case, he is probably not aware that he has hurt you by his actions.  Some men are not raised to consider how their actions affect others.  You may be able to enlighten him.  If he is very involved with something, and he cares about you, he should not mind if YOU take the initiative and call him, as long as you do not call so often that he cannot get his work done.  

If, however, you have a discussion and his answers tell you that he is intentionally ignoring how his actions affect others, you may be better off without him.  Who wants to live in a roller coaster?

And yes, he may be seeing another woman but my experience with this type is that while they are seeing someone else, they will call you and make excuses.  They are very aware that they have "two irons in the fire" and make sure that they tend to both, even thought they may be busy with only one.

I hope that made sense and answered your question.

Answer 11

Sounds like he's just not that bothered about yuo and is treating you like a doll he can play with when he wants, and then put away in a box when he's bored. You should have someone that is consistant and treats you properly.