Why does my boyfriend have a fit when I hang out with my older brother?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend since March 18th of this year and we are close, but when I tell him I'm going to be hanging out with my brother or my dad he gets really mad. He even asked me if I had s*x with my brother!! When I hang with my other guy friends he doesn't get mad, ONLY with my BROTHER. I'm very close with my brother and we DO NOT do anything sexual...eww.. My question is why is he doing this. I spend all of my time with my boyfriend, so it's not like i neglect him, and like I said with my other guy friends he doesn't seem to care. This started happening for 2 months already. He isn't mental or anything, he's just acting like a jackass. Any Ideas???

Example:[ME:] "I'm hanging out with Shannon(brother) today, we're going to the Pier". [HIM:] "Why so you can suck him off and shittt? All you do is hang with your fuckking brother." [ME:] " I hung out with you all week!" [HIM:] "Well that's not long enough Mackenzie". [HIM:] "God you fucck him, but you wont fuckk me!" [ME:] "NO I don't Corey(boyfriend0.

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Answer 1

I can tell you that you have a young man there who is abusive - if he is not violent, jealous and angry with you now, he will be soon.

This is right-out-of-the-text-book abusive behaviour and you need to break up with him now.

I had a boy friend once who beat me up because he was reading my address book - he found my friend Pauline's name and phone number and beat me up with a shoe, because for a moment, he thaught it said "Paul, not "Pauline".  He was a sick, sadistic mad-man and if I had stayed with him, he would have killed me eventually.

Answer 2

I agree with Annie May! That is very weird he's an idiot. Break up with him.

Answer 3

Not the Guy for you if hes mad you hang out with your Family.

Answer 4

1 loose this jerk as your boyfriend i am sure their are alto  more nice guys out their who would love to date you and treat you with love respect. always remember friends will come and go this includes immature boyfriends like this *** your dating.  would tell him if  you disrespect me or my family one more time you will be gone cause your just not worth it. Go find a nice boyfriend that you could include in some family events and one that enjoys being with you and your family.

Answer 5

Dump this immature jealous little boy. he is just jealous, to ask if you had s*x with your brother is really lame. He insulted you, there is no respect for you. He is behaving like a real jerk. You don't need to be treated like this.

I'm sorry you got hooked with this jerk. Kick him to the curb, NO RESPECT for you, A guy has to respect his lady friend.

Answer 6

this might be a wierd theory buttt...Maybe your bro knows something bout him you dont and he dosnt like you hanging out with him becuz he worried he might tell. Or he is just a mental case lol

Answer 7

wow he sounds seriously messed up...i could understand if he got upset when you hung with guy friends but the fact that hes cool with your guy friends but not your brother is seriously weird and creepy.

Answer 8

You have to face it dear this guy is a psycho and you have to really think about this relationship ... he is jealous of your BROTHER!? What the heck ...

You have two choices either you stop his sh*t and tell him point blank to never disrespect you or your family like that ... or you will have to break up with him ...

Do you realize what he is calling you? an insestual who*e ...

My first boyfriend always made assumptions about me having s*x with all my neighbors and having gang bangs ... whatever I was a virgin ... I broke up with he after punched me in my backyard for waving at one of the neighbors ...

Its hard to break up especially when you are thinking he is "the one" but trust me there are alot of guys out there that would appreciate your realtionship with all your family especially your brother ...

Take care hun and dont let him ABUSE you like that!  

Answer 9

hate to tell you this but you need to ditch him he doesnt respect the fact you have family. if you keep this relationship going and lets say you guys get older and move in together. he wont let you leave the house to see your family or anything. he's just going to be more controlling.  

Answer 10

God, he sounds like a right d*ck

seriously, do you honestly wanna be with a guy like this?

accusing you of having s*x with your own brother?

i think you know what you should do.

Answer 11

I had a boyfriend like this its time to dump him before things get out of controll

Answer 12

That is very weird.......I would understand him getting mad/jealous over you hangin' with your guy friends, but your BROTHER?? Your boyfriend needs some help...

xoxoxo Annie May!