Why does my boyfriend never listen to me?

Question

my boyfriend and i well of course, have s*x. i alway am the one to intiate it giving him oral s*x and kissing his body. and then i ask him to pay attention to me such as kissing my body back and to play with my v****a. so then he say no and always refuses to give me oral s*x back. it hurts my feelings and makes me feel un wanted and dirty. he doesnt even want to do ofre play with my viabrator and desnt even finger me. all he wants to do is jump right on and ignore my requests to have a loving night. WHAT ARE SOMETHING YOUD LIKE TO SUGGEST TO HIM OR SAY TO HIM THAT WILL GET HIM TO FINALLY MAKE ME FEEL LOVED?

Answer 1

when someone doesn't pay attention to your needs they are selfish. You should talk to him about it.  If he still refuses (this is my opinion) you should leave him alone because it only going to get worse and make you feel as if you are lower than you feel already.  He might be one of those guys that don't know how to show affection towards people.  It is a hard call but you have to know when enough is enough for you and get yourself satisfied.  

I wish you much luck.

Answer 2

Maybe he doesn't want to do all that stuff and just wants to get to s*x. Sometimes people don't want to talk like that or finger other people's bodies. Think about him the next time you do something or talk to him about it when you're not having s*x, but when you're just on a normal date.

Answer 3

this sounds like a bullsh^t question. sounds like a horny little teen just bored and wanting to have fun. just incase it isnt, he deseves the oral. just shut up and give it. and dont forget to clean him up afterwards.

Answer 4

Well Missy what do that tell you,it seems to me that you more into him than he is you.So stop giving all the treats because your getting tricked.Don't put out to an person who is unworthy of you.Have some self respect.Cause he don't care.So save your love for some one who love you.My moms told me never go with a man who I love,go with the one who love you.Baby it sounds like he don't care.

Answer 5

just because u r into all of that does not mean he is.

Answer 6

Suck his coc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!