Why does my boyfriend say things like this?

Question

*I'm asking in Marriage/Divorce because you all may know more, on why guys do and say certain things*

There is a girl that used to go to our Jr. High. My boyfriend and I were driving, and we saw her in her car. I was like "Oh, that's _____!" He said, "Oh...she's pretty cute." I said "Yeah, she is." (Just so it didn't sound like I was all jealous). Then he said "If only she went to our school." And I was (joking again) and said "You should date her" and he said something along the lines of "Well she doesn't like me as more than that.. we talked in like 7th or 8th grade."

This isn't the first time he's talked about another girl being cute.

Why does he do this?! It makes me feel somewhat unattractive...like he wants someone better? =/

Answer 1

I think theres diff ways of looking at it -

1) hes with you, he likes you and wants you or he wouldnt be with you , youve got him, hes yours all yours.

2) maybe its a sign of honesty

3)insecurity making you jelous to see how you react so he can see how much he means to you

4) he mite just be a total *** wipe with no excuse for doing this to you and if it is the case id bin him no point you living ur life feeling second best

confront him and put him in his place!

Answer 2

To start with he wont find somebody better, and why not give him the same remedy.

Take care

Answer 3

hahaha and your still with him that means he knows he has you wrap in his finger and he can talk to u like that i mean i do it if i know  the girl wont leave me or even object to what i say but im not an *** hole just a MAC

Answer 4

Its normal for guys to say that girls are attractive even if they've got a girlfriend. I do it quite a bit and not even relize it.

Answer 5

wow what a JERK!!!

either break up with him or if u really care about him tell him how u feel about him saying things like that

Answer 6

he could have just been kidding like you

Answer 7

A freind of mine, her husband does that. He'll just be like ,"Ooh, she's cute." It's just a thing he's not realizing he's doing. all I'd do is ignore it.

Answer 8

yeah do it back 2 him.. see how he feels!! guys r weird.. they have their own minds..

Answer 9

he wants you but also likes to look at other girls - nothing wrong, he is a guy and thats what  us guys do

Answer 10

Depending on what sort of relationship you have with this guy, he may be stirring you to get a reaction. Next time something like this happens again, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you don't appreciate it because it hurts your feelings. If he loves you, he will have more consideration for your feelings and hopefully knock it off.

Answer 11

do the same to let him know how it feels

Answer 12

Smack him!

Let him know your feelings.

He sounds a like a real D!ck

Answer 13

No. It's not that you're unattractive. It's just that he checks out other girls and he's open about it. I think you should talk to him about that and ask him why he keeps talking about other girls being cute when he already has you. Just tell him how you feel. If he knows how you feel about it, most likely he will stop doing that.