Why does my boyfriend still do this??

Question

so i have an amazing boyfriend.

hes perfect.

we have s*x.

i give him head and handjobs and everything he could possibly want.

okay.

but i know he still looks at p**n while im at school and stuff and naked girls and girls stripping on the internet and stuff. why does he still do this when he has everything.

it bothers me that he could even WANT to look at it when he has me.

its not the fact that he does it that bothers me... but its the fact that he WANTS to still do it when he has me.

i have no intention of looking at an other guy because he is everything to me and i dont need anything else.

but even to me hel point out if a girl is hot, etc.

how can he even think like that when he has a perfect girlfriend.

and i know im good at everything and im everything he wants.

im not being conceited but why does he still do all this.

why does he even want to.??

Answer 1

It's just p**n. v_v Why do girls make such a big deal out of this? I don't care if my boyfriend watches p**n as long as he doesn't describe it to me or something. In fact, I KNOW he watches p**n. Guys are more visual creatures and p**n is just like a little mind tease for them. In the end, it's not like he wants anyone else but you, k? Don't be THAT insecure! Most guys watch p**n! Have you tried watching p**n? It's really not that big of a deal...please don't make it a big deal. v_V

Answer 2

Coming from a male, dont take it personally.  Men have girlfriends for the intimacy and stability but they look at p**n for a quick "I'm done!" pants back up and xbox controller in the hand.  Guys dont look at p**n because theyre unhappy, its because we're men!

Answer 3

men will be men! there are only some out there who are not like that! tell him how rude he is and it bothers you!

Answer 4

Although there is probably a more in depth reason, I would say don't harass him about it. Because he will continue to do it, but behind your back. Better that he does it where he feels free to do it, around you, than to have him sneaking around with secrets in my opinion.

Answer 5

Maybe he doesn't think you're perfect.

Answer 6

I felt the same way.  I put my man through a dry spell for like a month.  But then I decided to look at the p**n with him and found he was looking at girls that looked similar to me.  I have always been comfortable looking at p**n, so now it doesnt bother me.  Plus, I never feel funny about going to youtube and watching things on s*x ed

As long as he is not flirting with girls infront of you I think you are ok. When he points someone cute out ask him what he finds attractive in her, it might me similar to you.

Answer 7

Mostly, guys like to watch porno, it's a fantasy to them. I don't think that's anything wrong with that, but he wants to still do it when he has you and that's no respect.  It seems like he wants a lot of excitement with you in order to get him aroused more by watching it.  Porno could get people into addiction.  Why don't you discuss with him and tell him that you're feeling uncomfortable while he has you do it and watching it.  He should cares for your feeling too.  I think you're too nice, you have to be mean to him sometimes.  Good luck!              

Answer 8

Guys are more visual than women.  Women are fine when they are emotionally connected, but most men still look at p**n even when they are in relationships.  

Answer 9

he's a boy...

and i can almost assure you that every male does that...it is normal...its a guy thing... i know cause i just asked my best guy friend

Answer 10

Take it from a man, we are pigs. We could have a harem of supermodels waiting to do our beck and call and we would still watch p**n, we would still check out women who walk by. Even if we are supremely happy and faithful, we would still look at p**n. It is our nature. We would stop if we could, but pigs are pigs.  

Answer 11

Guys are just naturally curious.

Answer 12

cuz guys are guys

they can look

its a turn on-maybe he wants to b reddy for ya

y do women finger themselves?

hmmmm??