He is 45 years old, (my brother). If there is an argument between me and someone else and I stand up for myself (remember I am standing up for myself and I did not start the argument) my brother immediately stands up for the other side. My brother is not a part of the discussion. When I tell my brother to stay out of it, he becomes haughty and snubs me. He has also insisted on me seeing someone I do not care to be seen with, it is my choice and I have told him this. Again he would snub me and I got tired of being around him. He has cats that he does not train, but when it comes to my dog he starts to take charge and I had gotten onto him to leave my dog alone and he got very hateful and started to push my dog to the side. I cannot turn to anyone in my immediate family because my so called "Poor brother" has gone through a lot. This is a grown man who supposedly has a "bad back" and will not help my mother around the house to pick up after himself or help do the yard (mow the lawn). But he can become physically violent with me. The family will say how wrong he is for being like this, but when it comes to facing him, the family shys away. Although due to my mother's health condition I had said I would move back down to where I grew up, I will not do so because of this scenario with my brother who lives with my mother. After all considering these situations with my brother, I now have no desire to move back down to where I grew up. All I want to know is what kind of person my brother is.
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