Why does my brother watch g*y M2M (man 2 man)?

Question

I caught him watching it on youtube in his room fully naked. I was like OMFG and stepped out of the room. My legs we're trembling & I haven't told dad yet. Should I? Cause my brother was begging me not to and he i dunno if he's G-A-Y but i love my bro and i don't want him to get introuble. (My dad hates g**s, he says if any of us are g*y he'll beat us up & kick us outta the house) I don't want that to happen to my bro D:

Answer 1

don't tell anyone anything. it's none of yours or their business!

Answer 2

Your brother is lucky to have someone who cares about him as much as you do. From the sound yes he is definitely g*y or bisexual and although your family up bringing might not think it is okay there is a whole world that sees it as okay.

The first thing is to protect your brother as you say so telling your parents will be a huge no. Your brother is alone at the moment with parents who wont accept him and he is unsure ho you will react. Your brother needs you to tell him that you will not tell anyone and that you love him no matter what. He needs your love and someone to be able to talk to in the next few years. I hope you can accept him and remember he is still your  brother. Also for the future i think it would be a good idea to keep it from your dad and for your brother to only reveal that he is g*y once he is older and safely out of the house standing on his own two feet.  

Answer 3

I think it sounds like yes, your brother could well be g*y. However if you love him as you say you do I would not tell your father. He has already openly threatened you - to tell him would condemn your brother to much misery.

Keep your brother's secret for him and perhaps when he's older and moved out he'll be able to tell your father himself. Support your brother because if he's not going to get any from his father, he'll need you to be there for him more than ever.

Answer 4

definitely, your bro is a g*y..

i think your bro should tell your dad about it at the RIGHT TIME. he should see to it that before he tells about it, your dad should be in good mood and that he should try his best to let your dad understand him. maybe at first your dad would get hurt knowing your bro is a g*y but he will soon realize that he can do nothing about it.

Answer 5

Do not tell your dad or your mother because he will still get in trouble . If you tell then he will gt kicked out of the house and your parents might not support his education any more , because of whay you said that your dad hates g**s

Answer 6

I strongly suggest you fall to your brother's request.

If he's g*y, then so what? Who cares? It's really none of your business anyways.

Answer 7

It does not mean he is g*y.  He may just be curious to know what all the fuss is about.

Dont tell anyone, and tell your bro that you are not going to tell anyone.  Ask him if there is anything he wants to tell you.

Answer 8

Ye your brother could be g*y or just exploring his sexuality if i was you i would not tell your dad because if your brother is g*y then he needs to do it himself and he mit not be ready to come out. If you love your brother like you say then support him make him feel really supported the best thing

hope i helped  

Answer 9

Simple then.  Don't tell anyone.  

Seriously, do you think that just because you caught your brother doing something that you really weren't supposed to see that you have the right to broadcast it?  

What would you do if you caught him in bed with another guy when he was older, would you run off to tell your parents then?  

Answer 10

No. Never tell your dad about it. Trust me, if your brother has a choice to "change" his sexuality, he wouldn't have chosen to be g*y and thus to be discriminated, humiliated and to be kicked out of your dad's house. Who wants to be treated like that anyway? Nobody wants to be miserable. And, certainly nobody wants to be homeless!

Anyway, just keep the secret for him if you love him. When he's old enough to move out, he'll eventually come out to your dad. That's for sure.

Answer 11

If you really love someone (in this case, your brother) then you want what's best for them. The best thing for your brother right now is that you keep his secret. Nobody will  benefit from you telling on him.

Answer 12

just to support 100% chuckney's answer

do not tell your father - why would you actually do that - both your brother and your father will be upset, think of that, nobody will be happy...

however try to help your brother in changing your dad's opinion, or attitude... unfortunately I can not give you any good advice how to do that, you know your father better... but if you really love your brother don\t leave him to deal alone with it

Answer 13

no no no no...

don't tell anything to your dad! just act like you don't know anything about this story but try to make your brother feel very comfortable and support him in this confusion he has in his mind...

he needs your help and if you are in good relationship with him try to give him the most help you can...

try to tell him that there ain't anything wrong about being g*y and that if he is you will keep loving him as you always did and that nothing is gonna change between you...

Answer 14

Don't determine someones sexuality based on one incident. If you want to know, ask. It's not that tricky. He may be reluctant to say it, but you can talk to him about it. Don't tell your dad.