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Why does my dad think im spoiled??

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yesterday we were watching that show about those spoiled rich girls going to a diff country

and my dad makes lots of money cause hes a psychiatrist

and he buys me whatever i want

i ALWAYS say thank you

and he said i should go to a country like africa to see how they live.

and i was like daddy why?

and he said i have things way to easy

we have a maid and she helps me with everything

but even though he gets me everything i dont think im spoiled..

but he says i am

i get really good grades and dont get in big trouble

what do you thnk??//

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u r so spoiled no normal kid has a maid dude i get paid 20 bucks a month to clean my hole frikin house and you get a maid!!!!! Also what parent gives their kid whatever they want??? Ive had to buy all my stuff since i was 10! and im talking clothes, school stuff, haircuts everything. Pff and u wanna know why he thinks ur spoiled?
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that you need to catch a clue and worry about important stuff
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You are spoiled. Getting good grades and not getting in trouble doesn't mean that you aren't spoiled. Any one can do that. If you really weren't spoiled you would tell the maid not to help you anything (besides homework). Spoiled girls rarely accept that they are spoiled.
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Compared to the third world we are ALL spoiled. You father is simply wanting you to experience the hardships other people have to face in life. He's not insulting you - he's encouraging you to grow into a fair-minded, deeper individual. Go to Africa - it will make you a better person.
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well just cause your appreciative doesn't mean that your not spoiled. you have it good compared to the rest of the average person regardless of which country he where to mention. besides most parents say that to their kids because the parents had it said to them when they where kids. it's not a big deal, you are spoiled but it's your dad's fault ...so just enjoy it while you can, because one day you'll have to make your own money and get your own things.
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do you even realize that we're in 2 wars right now with afghanistan and iraq?!

if you dont, then you are spoiled.

also, if you havent thought of what ur dad goes through everyday, and what he does to get that high paying job that he has eventhough our nation is going through an economic hardship right now, then you are spoiled.

ur dad buys you everything you want!!!!!!!!!!

gosh! you know, some people cant get everything that they want! and you know what? they live with and deal with it!! gosh!!!

you need to realize what the world is going through. atleast take part in some good act like community service or help make this earth green!
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do you ask for a lot? A lot means, getting to do what you want all the time
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i hate to break it to you but you ARE spoiled, but its ok its not a bad thing, as long as what you say about you being a good kid is true, there is nothing wrong with it
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He's a psychiatrist--he's experimenting on you.

Seriously, if it bothers you, then maybe you should plan a trip as he suggests. Solicit his advice for help deciding what to do. You still won't know if you understand unless you do it, no matter how much advice you get from answers bozos.
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father knows best I think he is right go to other countries and see how other people live, it will it broaden your horizons it may give you a better sense of the world around you. I hope you do go somewhere to have a look, and get involved in their life in some small way, it can only be good for you. Father really does know best.
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donate all ur dad's stuff to africa!! And i don't think you're spoiled=)
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its sounds to me like you are kinda spoiled. you do have things come easy but that doesnt make you a bad person. someone who is born into a rich/high class kind of family doesnt always mean that they are a bad person. its just that so many rich people take that for granted that everyone else assumes that ALL rich people are like that. if you think of how many people would kill to even have a home that keeps them safe you would know how lucky you are. its such an eye opener when you have everything taken just like that from you. if something like that does happen you appreciate the little thing in life a lot more then before.
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Things don't make a person/child spoiled. A parent not setting boundaries and disciplining spoils a child. He can give you diamond rings, but if he makes you face logical consequences of your actions and doesn't bail you out but lets you suffer for your mistakes, then you're not spoiled. However, if you get everything you want because he just can't tell you "no", then, yes, you are spoiled. If that's the case, though, you're not the one who spoiled you, now are you? The reality is that only you can get to the heart of this question. None of us can see well enough to tell you the one right answer.
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As long as you know to appreciate everything you have, then no you aren't spoiled.

You can't help what you're born into.
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I think you are just because you get anything you want. Being spoiled doesn't necessarily mean you wine over not getting something. You get whatever you want. I think you should take a look at what you don't need, and what you do need. College really helped me figure that one out. I took so much stuff my first semester and didn't even use half of it. Then the next semester I took barely anything and did just fine. It was incredible. Wow... you have a maid? That's insane. I would try helping your maid out a little... because it's good to be able to look after yourself and be able to handle yourself without anyone's help...
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because EVERY dad thinks their daughters are spoiled,

i just spent $300 that i earned myself on clothes today

and he was talking to his friend saying how spoiled i am haha

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well, I've been in a similar situation, and it's not easy to hear people say you're spoiled, isn't it? I think what your dad meant was that your life is going too good right now and if you don't start seeing the rough side of the world then you're GONNA turn into a spoiled girl. Well to prove my sisters they're wrong about saying I'm spoiled, I help around the house, stop complaining and asking for unnecessary things. Hope it helps :)
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He thinks you are spoiled because you get everything you want, and you should see how poor some people are in Africa, etc.
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It is nice that you say thank you...but you are still spoiled. Most people dont have a lot of money and wont have half of what you have now in their entire lives..Not that this is your fault. You are very fotunate to be in a wealthy family. Also, if you are spoiled it is HIS fault not yours.
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youd be spoiled if you whined about getting more stuff.
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G'day mate i really don't under stand parents that call there kid's spoiled when they are the one's spoiling them.If your dad is buying you things all the time he is the one spoiling you.It's good you are getting good grades and soon enough you will have independence

and the smarts to make your own money, i don't know how old you are but it's good you question him if yr spoiled or not, because if he says yes you are then to say,but your the one who is spoiling me.Tell him to go to Africa and learn not to spoil his family and then say that there spoiled.cheers mate
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