Why does my father inlaw hate me?

Question

me went to my wifes 25 bday at her parents.. it was a good night but about 2 am my wife had to go to bed . her father was already asleep he went before 12 . everyone else was gone. so my mother inlaw and i kept drinking. we jumped in the pool laughed and joked. but then it happened yes we made love. my wife is a bit upset but understands that we were drunk at it was a spur of the thing. but he won't let me near the house.how can i explain to him im sorry i made a terrible mistake

Answer 1

Gee, I don't know.  Can't figure that one out.  Maybe you and your father-in-law, and your mother-in-law, and your wife should all get together naked in the pool and discuss the situation. That should help straighten things out.  

Answer 2

"Oh Man" you MESSED UP BIGTIME.... you pass the over line.. thats a biggggg No No No... Forget it .. i'm going to be straight out and trust me I know what he is thinking about u.. He wants you out of the family bigtime.  Don't be surprise your wife will file Divorce on you anytime now. she mite be quiet or to upset to talk to u. but she is thinking hard now. because her father is going to talk to her alot about the shameless thing that happen in the family, U be the 1st one to get rid off..

if your trying to talk to him "forget it" he has no trust on you, and you just messed up the faith in the family home, I say stay away, don't make things hard more then it is..

and your mother in law.. Seems not to care to enough about you, she going to be kissing her husband butt rite now.. trust me.. your the least person she going to think about... I say stay away, don't try to fix things.. Is going to get worst.. and just be ready for what your wife going to make decision in her life...

Man u just went over head.. and drinking is NOT AN EXCUSES.. B.S.

I DON'T BELIEVE U...  

Answer 3

   Maybe he hates you because you had s*x with his wife and cheated on his daughter.  I'd go to court now and get divorced.  

Answer 4

Might be a good idea to quit drinking if you are hurting people who love you and alienating family members.

Answer 5

That was just FUC*ED UP! She is better than me cause i would have left your ***. And your lucky her dad didnt shoot you cause my dad would have. I say leave it alone, she didnt leave you so go while the good is still going. I wouldnt try to seek father in laws forgiveness for a long time if ever!

Answer 6

d**n!...every father in law should hate you...but then again if you are really sorry,you really should accept the consequences of your mistakes.

Answer 7

Take some creative writing classes.  Your story is screaming "fake"!

Answer 8

You slept with his wife, and you wonder why he hates you?  He hates you cuz you screwed his wife.  So, what do you do????  Well, to start, quit claiming it was a mistake.  You didn't "accidentally" have s*x.  You DELIBERATELY did what you did.  To try to excuse your actions because of alcohol is silly.  You aren't likely to EVER be welcome in the in-law's home.  You've already demonstrated that you aren't trustworthy,   Why would your Father-in-law want to bother listening to your stupid justifications?  Only a fool would buy your "accidental" line.

Answer 9

This must be a joke! People don't actually do that kinda c**p in real life, do they???

Answer 10

How did your wife forgive U for such a terrible thing???????????

Answer 11

wow u ****** ur mom in law.......ha ha ha ha ha ha  u b....s....t......d.

Answer 12

You've made your bed.....

At least you still have your wife. Has she and her mother talked? I don't know how to explain to a husband that you've been part in violating his marriage. I hope your wife eventually leaves you and her mother!

Answer 13

Poor you