Why does my fiance feel akward and uncomfortable when I send text messages to my best "girl"friend?

Question

I have a best friend who I've known for 8yrs, we text message alot...this is how are relationship has been, never long conversations but she will text me something funny or ask a question anything just basic girl talk...nothing serious...we do talk on the phone but primariy we text and its not everyday so why does he feel uncomfortable...also we are not young kids I'm in my late twenties he his mid thirties.

Answer 1

Well, personally I would feel uncomfortable if my fiance was texting someone else on a regular basic. Put yourself in their place and see how you would feel if they were doing this. Maybe it would help you see why they feel this way. We should never do anything that makes the other person uncomfortable.

Answer 2

Hmmm....this on really gets me, maybe he'd like to be the one your talking to, not her. My guess would be to talk to him, I mean communication is a relationships best friend, and with being engaged you don't want something like this to get in the way of what can be a beautiful long marriage, talk to him, see why he has an issue with it, and see what he says. If it is something bigger then what you think, better to get it out in the open now before you would become another 1 out of 3 failed marriage! Good luck, I hope it all works out for you!