Why does my freind do this stuff to me?

Question

ok so i have a freind, lets call him joe, joe is one of my best freinds and i do like im as a freind but lately i have noticed that when he is talking to other ppl, primarily girls, he tends to cut me down ( saying things that one wouldent say to ones face) alot and it bugs me. the only thing that i keep getting when i try to figure this out is that he sees me as a threat. am i right or am i just overreacting to a thing that he might do. i have talked to some of the girls that he talks to and they see the same thing as i do. what should i do? confront him on the matter, leave it alone, or try to find the real reason he is doing it.. thanks in advance

Answer 1

I would talk to him about it. And you don't have to be confrontational about it just say, "Hey Joe, I over heard you talking to some of the those girls over there, and what you said kinda hurt me, cause you were lying to them. Whats the deal with that, I thought we were buddies?" and if that doesn't work maybe it is just because he is threatened by you, and if that is the case I hate to say this but you may have to reconsider your friendship with him.

Answer 2

Sorry about my last post, I thought that you were a girl till I saw your avatar!

But yeah, you should confront him about it. Tell him that it doesn't make him look cool to other girls, that it just makes him look like a jerk. And that it gets on your nerves, and if he's going to act like that he can find himself another whipping boy to make fun of to impress girls. As a female, I can tell you that if I was single, I certainly wouldn't date a guy that couldn't even be nice to his own friends!

Answer 3

maybe you should leave him alone or the best thing you should do is find what really is the reason why he's doing that to you.

just say this.

hey Joe!!!How are you today?i need to ask you something or i need to tell you something..then ask what you want to say~!~!

hope this helps!!